“Indodana yami ihlale ikhala ngokuthi idiniwe futhi ayikho into engayenza. Kuzwakala sengathi ulinde mina ukuthi ngimjabulise. Ngazama ukuyishintsha futhi ngacela ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya noma ukufunda, kodwa akafuni. Ngezinye izikhathi angakwazi nje ukulala embhedeni futhi abheke ophahleni, futhi lapho ngibuza: "Wenzani?" - uyaphendula: "Ngiyakukhumbula." Lesi simo sengqondo sokuchitha isikhathi siyangicasula.”
Emphakathini wethu, izingane zijwayele ukujatshuliswa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ithelevishini, imidlalo yekhompiyutha ayinikezi umzuzu wokuphumula. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane zikhohliwe ukuthi zihamba kanjani, zidlale nabangane emgwaqweni, zingangeni ezemidlalo futhi azikho izinto zokuzilibazisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, bahlale belindele ukuthi kube khona ozobajabulisa. Okufanele ngikwenze?
- Fundisa ingane yakho ukudlala ngamathoyizi asekhaya. Mhlawumbe akazi ukuthi enzeni ngalenqwaba yamabhola nezimoto ezilele kubhasikidi. onodoli, abaklami, njll.
- Sebenzisa le nqubo: "sidlala nomama, siyazidlalela." Dlalani ndawonye kuqala, bese niveza izindlela zokuthi yini enye engenziwa, bese utshela ingane yakho ukuthi, «Ngizokwenza umsebenzi wasendlini, futhi uqedele esikuqalile, bese ungishayela ucingo.
- Mhlawumbe amathoyizi anikezwa ingane ayifanele iminyaka yakhe. Uma ingane ijwayele ukudlala okuthile, kodwa manje iyeka - cishe, isivele ikhulile kulo mdlalo. Uma engazi ukuthi enzeni futhi engenasithakazelo kuwo wonke amathuba ento entsha, cishe kusesekuseni kakhulu kuye. Uma ingane ingadlali nanoma yimaphi amathoyizi phakathi nalesi sikhathi, mane nje uwasuse emehlweni akhe okwesikhashana.
- Sebenzisa noma yiziphi izindlela ukuhlela umdlalo. Amaphupho nokudala kukhula kangcono kakhulu uma ingane inganikezwa imidlalo esenziwe ngomumo, kodwa izinto zokwakha. Gxila emisebenzini edinga umsebenzi omude futhi onzima: ukwakha idolobha ngamabhokisi eqenjini lekhadibhodi, dweba imigwaqo, umfula, ukwakha ibhuloho, ukwethula imikhumbi yephepha eduze nomfula, njll. Ungenza imodeli yedolobha noma idolobhana izinyanga eziningi, besebenzisa lo magazini amadala, iglu, isikelo. ukupakishwa kwemithi noma izimonyo, kanye nomcabango wakho.
- Ezinganeni ezindala, ngenisa isiko endlini: ukudlala i-chess. Akudingekile ukunikela amahora ambalwa ngosuku emdlalweni. Vele uqale umdlalo, ubeke ibhodi etafuleni elingavamile ukusetshenziswa, ubeke ishidi lephepha nepensela eduze kwakho ukuze ubhale ukunyakaza, futhi wenze ukunyakaza okungu-1-2 ngosuku. Ngokushesha lapho ingane ithola isithukuthezi, ungakwazi njalo ukuza futhi ucabange ngomdlalo.
- Nciphisa isikhathi sakho sokubuka i-TV nokudlala imidlalo yekhompiyutha. Mema ingane yakho ukuthi uyifundise ukudlala imidlalo yasemgwaqweni, efana nomacashelana, abaphangi be-Cossack, omaka, izicathulo ze-bast, njll.
- Yenza uhlu lwezinto ozozenza nengane yakho. uma ubhoreka. Ngokuzayo lapho ingane yakho ikhononda, uthi, “Ngicela ubheke. uhlu lwakho."
- Ngezinye izikhathi umntwana akazami ngisho nokuzixaka nganoma yini: akafuni lutho futhi akanandaba nalutho. Ngokuvamile lesi simo siqala eminyakeni engu-10-12. Lokhu kungenxa yezinga eliphansi lamandla engane. Zama ukunciphisa umthwalo, uqiniseke ukuthi uthola ubuthongo obanele, hamba kancane.
- Uma ingane iqhubeka nokukuhlupha, yithi: «Ngiyakuzwa, ngiye ngibe nesithukuthezi ngezinye izikhathi.” Lalelisisa ingane, kodwa ungazami ukwenza lutho ngokwakho. Hamba ngebhizinisi lakho futhi umlalele, uphendula imisindo engacacile: “Ehhe. Yebo. Yebo». Ekugcineni, umntwana uzoqonda ukuthi awuhlosile ukwenza noma yini ukuqeda isithukuthezi sakhe, futhi uzothola okuthile okuzokwenza yedwa.