“Angikaze ngesabe ukuba ngumama oyimpumputhe”, ngokushesha umemezela uMarie-Renée, unina wezingane ezintathu nothisha eSikhungweni sentsha eyizimpumputhe eParis. Njengabo bonke omama, ekuzalweni kokuqala, kufanele ufunde ukunakekela umntwana. ” Ukufeza lokhu, kungcono ukudinga ukuthi ushintshe inabukeni ngokwakho, uhlanze intambo… Umhlengikazi wasenkulisa akufanele aneliseke ngokwenza nokuchaza nje ”, Kuchaza umama. Umuntu oyimpumputhe udinga ukuzwa nokuzwa ingane yakhe. Khona-ke angenza noma yini “Ngize ngimnqume nezinzipho”, kuqinisekisa uMarie-Renée.
Zikhulule ekubukeni kwabanye
Egunjini lababelethayo, lapho kuzalwa ingane yakhe yesithathu, uMarie-Renée ukhumbula ukucasuka kwakhe lapho ahlala naye, omunye umama, ezivumela ukuba amehlulele ngokungakwazi kwakhe ukuba umama okahle. Iseluleko sakhe: "Ungalokothi uvumele ukunyathelwa futhi ulalele wena kuphela".
Umbuzo wenhlangano
Amathiphu amancane akuvumela ukuthi uguqule ukukhubazeka emisebenzini yansuku zonke. “Impela, ukudla kungadala umonakalo. Kepha ukusetshenziswa kwebhulawuzi namabhayi kukhawulela ukubulawa kwabantu ”, umama ujabule. Iphakele ingane ngokuyibeka emadolweni, kunokuba esihlalweni, ikuvumela ukuba ulawule ukunyakaza kwekhanda lakho.
Uma kuziwa emabhodleleni ezingane, akukho okungaba lula. Isitsha esithweswe iziqu ze-braille sikuvumela ukuthi kudosiswe, namathebulethi - kulula ukuwasebenzisa - ukuwavala amagciwane.
Uma u-Baby eqala ukukhasa, okumele ukwenze ukuhlela isikhala ngaphambi kokubeka ingane phansi. Ngamafuphi, ungashiyi lutho lulele.
Izingane ezisheshe zibone ingozi
Ingane ngokushesha kakhulu uqaphela ingozi. Ngombandela wokumazisa ngakho. “Kusukela zineminyaka emi-2 noma emithathu ubudala, ngangifundisa izingane zami ukukhanya okubomvu nokuluhlaza. Ngokwazi ukuthi ngangingeke ngibabuke baqondiswa izigwegwe, kusho uMarie-Renée. Kodwa uma ingane ingaphumuli, kungcono ukuba ne-leash. Uyakuzonda kangangokuthi usheshe ahlakaniphe! “