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I-IVF: isambulo sokukhulelwa enganeni
UFlorence akabange esapholisa maseko ukuvezela amawele akhe ukuthi akhuleliswe kanjani. ” Kimina kwakungokwemvelo ukubatshela, ukuthi bayaqonda ukuthi sasinosizo oluncane lwemithi ukuze siwathole », Kuthula umama omncane. Kuye, njengabanye abazali abaningi, ukwambulwa ngemfashini yokuklama kwakungeyona inkinga. Igxekwe kakhulu ekuqaleni kwayo, i-IVF manje isingene emqondweni. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi eminyakeni engu-20, amasu okuzala okusizwa ngokwemithi (MAP) aseyinsakavukela. Izingane ezingaba ngu-350 manje zikhulelwa unyaka ngamunye ngokusebenzisa i-in vitro fertilization, noma u-000% wezingane eziyizigidi ezingu-0,3 ezizalwa emhlabeni wonke. Irekhodi!
Indlela umntwana akhulelwa ngayo...
Izinkinga azifani ezinganeni ezizalwa abazali abangaziwa. Ukukhiqizwa kabusha ngokunikela ngesidoda noma ama-oocyte kuye kwathuthuka kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva. Kuzo zonke izimo, umnikelo uyaziwa. Umthetho we-Bioethics ka-1994, owaqinisekiswa ngo-2011, empeleni uqinisekisa ukungaziwa komnikelo we-gamete. Onikelayo akakwazi ukwaziswa ngendawo yomnikelo wakhe futhi, okuphambene nalokho: abazali noma ingane ngeke bakwazi ukwazi ukuthi ubani onikelayo. Kulezi zimo, adalule noma cha indlela ethile yokukhulelwa enganeni yakhe iwumthombo waphakade wemibuzo kubazali. Yazi imvelaphi yakho, umlando womndeni wakho kubalulekile ukwakha. Kodwa ingabe okuwukuphela kokwaziswa ngendlela yokukhulelwa kwenele ukufeza lesi sidingo solwazi?
IVF: kugcine kuyimfihlo?
Esikhathini esidlule, ubungadingi ukusho lutho. Kodwa ngolunye usuku, ingane yathola iqiniso, kwakuyimfihlo evulekile. “Kuhlale kukhona owaziyo. Umbuzo wokufana ngezinye izikhathi udlala indima, ngumntwana ngokwakhe ozwa okuthile. », Ugcizelela isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Genevieve Delaisi, uchwepheshe wemibuzo ye-bioethics. Kulezi zimo, ukwambulwa kwakuvame ukwenziwa ngesikhathi sokungqubuzana. Lapho isehlukaniso sihamba kabi, umama walahla owayengumyeni wakhe ngokuthi akayena “uyise” wezingane zakhe. Umalume wazivumela yena embhedeni wakhe wokufa ...
Uma isimemezelo sibangela noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka enganeni, ukushaqeka ngokomzwelo, kuba nobudlova nakakhulu uma isifunda ngesikhathi sengxabano yomndeni. “Ingane ayiqondi ukuthi sekunesikhathi eside ifihlwa kuyena, kusho ukuthi indaba yayo iyihlazo. », Kwengeza i-psychoanalyst.
IVF: tshela ingane, kodwa kanjani?
Kusukela lapho, izimo zengqondo ziye zavela. Imibhangqwana manje yelulekwa ukuthi ingagcini izimfihlo enganeni. Uma ebuza imibuzo ngokuzalwa kwakhe, ngomkhaya wakhe, abazali kufanele bakwazi ukumnikeza izimpendulo. "Indlela yokuklama kwayo iyingxenye yomlando wayo, kufanele kwaziswe ngokusobala ngokugcwele," kusho uPierre Jouannet, owayeyinhloko ye-CECOS.
Yebo, kodwa ukusho kanjani-ke? Kuqala abazali baziphendulele ngalesi simo, uma bengakhululekile ngalo mbuzo wemvelaphi, uma senanela ukuhlupheka, khona-ke umlayezo ungase ungadluli kahle. Nokho, ayikho iresiphi eyisimangaliso. Hlala uthobekile, chaza ukuthi kungani sicele umnikelo wama-gametes. Ngokuqondene neminyaka, kungcono ukugwema ubusha, okuyinkathi lapho izingane zintekenteke. ” Abazali abaningi abasebasha bakusho kusenesikhathi lapho ingane ineminyaka emi-3 noma 4 ubudala.. Useyakwazi ukuqonda. Eminye imibhangqwana ikhetha ukulinda kuze kube yilapho isikhulile noma isikhule ngokwanele ukuba abazali ngokwabo ”.
Nokho, ingabe lolu lwazi lulodwa lwanele? Kuleli phuzu, umthetho, ocace kakhulu, uqinisekisa ukungaziwa kwabanikeli. OkaGenevieve Delaisi, lolu hlelo ludala ukukhungatheka enganeni. “Kubalulekile ukumtshela iqiniso, kodwa empeleni lokho akuyishintshi inkinga, ngoba umbuzo wakhe olandelayo uzoba, 'Pho ubani lo?' Futhi abazali bayobe sebekwazi ukuphendula ukuthi abazi. ”