Icala elingakholakali ngesihluku salo. Abasha ababili bacishe babulala uthisha nabafundi abambalwa.
Kusizindalwazi seKomidi Eliphenyayo lasePerm Territory, kunomyalezo omubi: ekuseni ngo-January 15, kwalwa izingane zesikole ezimbili kwesinye sezikole zedolobha. Abazange bathole ubuhlobo ngezibhakela zabo: omunye weza ne-nunchaku naye, omunye wabamba ummese. Akuwona umkhuba ukusesha abafundi emnyango, ngoba ngezabo. Kodwa ngeze.
Uthisha nezingane ezimbalwa bazame ukungenelela kule mpi. Lona wesifazane kanye nomunye wabafundi abebezama ukunqanda impi manje bayahlinzwa: bagwazwe kanzima. Ezinye izingane zesikole eziningi zayiswa esibhedlela zinemihuzuko engatheni kakhulu: osemusha onesihluku wayephakamisela ummese kwesokudla nakwesokunxele. Ofakazi bempi bashaqekile. Futhi abazali banombuzo owodwa: kungani izingane zihlasela zodwa? Kungani impi yokufa nokuphila? Kungani kunolaka nonya olungaka entsheni? Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: ubani obekufanele akuqaphele?
Udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wesayensi yezokwelapha kanye noprofesa wezifo zengqondo uMikhail Vinogradov ukholelwa ukuthi izimpande zale nhlekelele zivela emindenini yabafana.
Konke izingane ezinakho, okuhle noma okubi, kuvela emndenini. Sidinga ukuthola ukuthi hlobo luni lwemindeni intsha enayo.
Asikabi nayo impendulo yalo mbuzo. Kodwa kuthiwani uma imikhaya ibonakala yenza kahle? Phela akekho owayengacabanga ukuthi abafana bayakwazi ukuxosha into enjalo.
Ngisho noma kukhona umama nobaba, uma bobabili bengabantu abalungile futhi bezwana, abakwazi ukunikeza ingane okuthile. Okokuqala ukunakwa. Buyela ekhaya uvela emsebenzini - umatasa ngemisebenzi yasekhaya. Pheka isidlo sakusihlwa, uqedele umbiko, uphumule ku-TV. Futhi izingane azinandaba. Ukushoda kwayo kuyinkinga enkulu emindenini yesimanje.
Ngokusho kukadokotela wezengqondo, abazali bayithatha kancane indima yokukhulumisana bukhoma nengane. Kodwa lokhu akunzima: imizuzu engu-5-10 nje yengxoxo efudumele, eyimfihlo yanele ukuze umphefumulo wengane (osemusha naye uyingane) azizwe ezolile.
Pat ingane, igone, ibuze ukuthi unjani, hhayi esikoleni, kodwa kanjalo nje. Imfudumalo yabazali iyafudumeza imiphefumulo yezingane. Futhi uma ubudlelwano bomndeni buhle, kodwa buhlelekile, lokhu kungase kube yinkinga.
Futhi ngokuqondene nalowo okufanele aqaphele amahlumela okuqala onya nobudlova enganeni ... Yebo, indima yomndeni nayo ibalulekile lapha. Kuyacaca ukuthi abazali ngokwabo ababona ochwepheshe; abakwazi ukubona lapho okujwayelekile, lapho i-pathology ikuphi. Ngakho-ke, ingane kufanele iboniswe kuchwepheshe, ngisho noma zingekho izinkinga ezibonakalayo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esikoleni? Abekho yonke indawo. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi anikeze indlela yomuntu ngamunye enganeni yakho, inamawadi amaningi kakhulu.
Lapho eneminyaka engu-12-13, kuyadingeka ukuthi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, hhayi udokotela wengqondo, akhulume nengane. Lokhu kuyadingeka ukuze embule zonke izifiso zakhe ezingaphakathi. Ulaka luyisici sazo zonke izingane. Kubalulekile ukuyiqondisa ngendlela eqondile.
Kule minyaka, izingane zithola izinguquko ze-hormonal emzimbeni. Ulaka kungenzeka ukuthi selusezingeni lomuntu omdala impela, ubuchopho bengane abukakwazi ukubhekana nakho. Ngakho-ke, intsha ivame ukwelulekwa ukuba ithunyelwe ezigabeni zezemidlalo: isibhakela, i-hockey, i-aerobics, i-basketball. Lapho, ingane izokwazi ukukhipha amandla ngaphandle kokulimaza noma ubani.
Izingane zehlisa umoya. Ukukhululwa kwamandla kwenzeka, kwakuyakha - lokhu kuyinto eyinhloko.
Futhi uma uphuthelwa yilesi sikhathi futhi ingane isaphuma yonke? Ngabe sekwephuze kakhulu ukulungisa isimo?
Kulokhu, ukuya kusazi sokusebenza kwengqondo akusadingeki nje, kodwa kufanele. Ukulungiswa kokuziphatha kungathatha cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha. Izinyanga ezi-4-5 uma ingane ixhumana naye. Futhi kuze kube unyaka - uma kungenjalo.