Lo mculi, osephenduke umama okwesithathu enyangeni edlule, uyazi ukuthi angaqinisekisa kanjani ukuthi izingane azibi nomona.
18 May 2017
Thola isikhathi esifanele sokwazisa abadala bakho mayelana nokwengezwa komndeni
- Angizange ngitshele amadodakazi ami ukuthi ngangilindele umntwana isikhathi eside. Naye wayengayikholwa injabulo yakhe. Bengifuna umntwana isikhathi eside! Uthe ngenyanga yesine noma eyesihlanu kuphela. Ngabaqoqa ngathi: “Nginiphathele isitatimende esibalulekile: nizoba nomfowenu noma udadewabo.” UMonica (intombazane ineminyaka emihlanu ubudala. - Cishe. "I-Antenna") yajabula ngokushesha, usithanda kakhulu, futhi u-Alina, eneminyaka engu-12 ubudala, ugcina yonke imizwelo kuye, ngakho wathatha izindaba ngokungathí sina. Mhlawumbe wakhumbula nokuthi kwakunjani lapho uMonica ezalwa. Unomlingisi oqhumayo, uyasebenza, uthanda ukunakwa, ngakho-ke omdala ukutholile.
Yenza abadala bahlanganyele kulokho okulindele.
Ngakhumbuza amadodakazi ami ukuthi ngithembele osizweni lwawo, ukuthi azophuzisa futhi ondle ingane kanye nami, futhi amantombazane ajabula kakhulu ngalokhu. UMonica akazange aye enkulisa ngaphandle kokuqabula isisu sami. Futhi u-Alina, njengomuntu omdala, wayekhathazeke kabi ngami, waqiniseka ukuthi angiphakamisi lutho olusindayo. Ngokuvamile, wonke umuntu wayebheke ngabomvu ilungu lomndeni elisha.
Ukuze ugweme ukuhlukaniswa phakathi kwezingane, chitha isikhathi ndawonye.
Engangingakulindele ukuthi kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukuthi wonke umuntu alale nengane yesithathu. Izingane zonke zilala ngesikhathi esisodwa. Futhi bajwayele ukuklwetshwa imihlane, bexoxa izinganekwane, kodwa uvele ungabi nazo izandla ezingaka. Kwanqunywa ukuthi ngilale okwesine, ukuze ngingadwengulwa. Futhi amantombazane awakaze akhalaze ngokuthi umfowabo uvuka ebusuku. Ngokuphambene nalokho, lapho amandla ami ephela, futhi ngilungele ukuzinikela, kungazelelwe ebumnyameni isandla sikaMonica esinengono sifinyelela kimi. UMonica no-Alina ngezinye izikhathi bayangisiza ukuba nginyakazise umfowethu futhi ngimehlise umoya. Lokhu kuyigugu kakhulu.
Ungayihlaba umkhosi inkinga ize yenzeka
Ukuvela kwelungu elisha lomndeni nakho kusho ushintsho endleleni yokuphila evamile yawo wonke umuntu. Ingane ikwazi kahle lokho. Futhi kungavusa umona. Kodwa asinalo igama elinjalo kusichazamazwi somndeni. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi impisi oyidlayo iyawina. Uma unaka kakhulu indaba yomona futhi uphindaphinda njalo kwabadala bakho: “Ungathukutheli ngokuthi umfowenu ethola okwengeziwe, nonyoko uyakuthanda,” ngokuthanda kwakho uyoba isisulu samazwi akho, futhi nakanjani izingane ziyoqala ukuzizwa zincishwa okuthile.
Nethezeka futhi ujabule nomndeni wakho
Ngokuvamile, ngengane yesithathu, kunokuhlolwa kabusha okukhulu kwamagugu, uqala ukugxila ezintweni ezibalulekile futhi unganaki okuncane. Ngingumuntu othanda ukuphelela ngokwesabekayo ngokwemvelo. Bekulokhu kubalulekile kimina ukuthi amadodakazi ami agqoke kahle, aye esikoleni nezifundo eziqedelwe ngokuphelele. Kwakungenakwenzeka ukugqokisa izingane ezintathu kukho konke okuhlanzekile, ukuba nesikhathi sokuphakela nokuthumela wonke umuntu ngebhizinisi labo. Ngenkathi wenza okwesibili, owokuqala usevele wazithela nge-compote. Ngiyaziqinisekisa ukuthi kulungile uma ngolunye usuku indodakazi yami iya esikoleni inebala esikibheni sayo. Kungcono ukusindisa izinzwa zakho, kubonakala kimi ukuthi umama ozolile uyisihluthulelo senjabulo yomndeni. Njengamanje, isibonelo, uMonica wenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikole emi esihlalweni nezinyawo zakhe, ememeza okuthile futhi ependa izincwadi zokubhalela. Kudingeka ube nesimiso sezinzwa esiqinile ukuze ungaqali ukumemeza: “Hlala embongolweni yakho, yeka ukuzitika,” kodwa umane umvumele enze umsebenzi wakhe wesikole ngendlela efanele. Nakuba kunzima nakimi, ngikholwe.
Vumela ingane ibe nguye, ungamqhathanisi nanoma ubani, unganikezi izizathu ezengeziwe zokuzizwa ungaphelele.
Muva nje, ngokokuqala ngqa, ngilwe kanzima no-Alina. Ngenxa yokuthi uchitha isikhathi esiningi ocingweni. Kumoshile, kubonakala kimi. Mina, njengabo bonke abazali, ngezinye izikhathi ngithatheka ngenqubo yokudala ikhophi yami engcono evela ezinganeni, ngiphindaphinda nsuku zonke ukuthi izilimi zifundeka kalula manje kunama-22, kulula futhi ukuhlukanisa manje kunasesikhathini. 44. Ngifuna bagweme noma yimaphi amaphutha ngaleso sikhathi, futhi izingane, njengazo zonke izingane, zifuna kungabikho othintayo futhi ziphile. Ngakho-ke kufanele ulwe kuqala namadodakazi akho, bese nawe ngokwakho, uzikhumbuze ukuthi banendlela yabo. Futhi akukho engingakhathazeka ngakho, nginezingane ezimangalisayo, ziyigugu eliyinhloko empilweni yami. Omunye wabo weza egijima wadonsa ngesandla, ngase ngiyokwenza umsebenzi wami wesikole.
Yibani yiqembu. Kodwa yonke ingane kufanele ibe nethuba lokuchitha isikhathi nomama yedwa.
Ngifundisa amantombazane ukugxila ezintweni ezinhle, ngiwatshela ukuthi siwumndeni, ithimba, ukuthi kufanele sisekelane, ngeke ngikwazi ukubhekana nazo ngaphandle kwazo, futhi umfowethu ngeke abe ngaphandle kwazo, ngoba yizo ezibaluleke kakhulu. abantu empilweni yakhe. Ingane ngayinye kufanele izizwe idingeka, ibe nendima okufanele iyidlale ekhaya, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ibe nesikhathi esihlukile sokuba yodwa nomama wayo. Engathinteki. NgoMonica, isibonelo, senza umsebenzi wethu wesikole nsuku zonke, no-Alina sihamba nenja.