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Umhlukumezi, lokho nje, uvele abe u-Aggressor. Okungenani ngiyazama...

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Umhlukumezi, Umshushisi, Umzingeli, Inja evela phezulu — amagama ahlukene ento efanayo, okungukuthi lowo ohlasela futhi ahlukumeze Isisulu Esineshwa.

Lapho Umgilwa engena esigabeni esisebenzayo sokuzivikela, yena ngokwakhe uba uMhlukumezi, uMxoshi, uMzingeli kanye neNja evela phezulu. Buka ividiyo — Umgilwa ucishe wangena esikhundleni sobuzali, asole, acasuke, ahlasele…

Empilweni, Isisulu sivame ukuphishekela futhi sithole uMshushisi ngokuqinile, ngakho empeleni izindima zihlehlisiwe. Uma ngesinye isikhathi lokhu kungabonakali kuwe, khumbula "inja phezulu" kanye "nenja engezansi". Izithombe ezicacile futhi, empeleni, imiqondo eyethulwa nguFrederick Perls. "Inja phezulu" iyindawo evulekile yokumangalela, ngokuvamile ngokumemeza, inhlamba nokunye ukukhonkotha. "Inja evela ngezansi" nayo iyisikhundla sokumangalela esisebenzayo, kodwa sifihliwe. Alikho nelilodwa igama lesihlamba, ngemva nje kwalokho okushilo, ubuso bakhe bazwakalisa ukuhlupheka okungakhulumi, amehlo akhe ayengajabule futhi emanzi, amahlombe akhe exegekile, izandla zakhe ngokwethuka zihlungwe ngeduku esezimanzi te izinyembezi ... Futhi uyaqonda ukuthi konke lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kwakho. Inhlalakahle yakho?

UMsindisi ezikhathini eziningi uba yithoyizi kuphela ezandleni zoMhlukumezi, okungukuthi, isisulu ngokwakhe, futhi ngaphansi kwengcindezi yezidingo zokukhala zoMhlukumezi, ngokuvamile ukhathazeka kakhulu ngokuphepha kwakhe noma isithunzi sakhe. Uma engumsindisi, khona-ke kungcono kakhulu kuye.


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