Okuqukethwe
Sawubona bafundi bebhulogi abathandekayo! Namuhla ngifuna ukunazisa amaqiniso ngamantombazane. Mhlawumbe lolu lwazi luzokusiza ukuthi uqonde kangcono abameleli ababuthakathaka, kodwa ubulili obunjalo obuhle.
Amaqiniso Okuthakazelisayo
Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi umuntu ngamunye ungumuntu ngamunye, ngakho-ke okuqukethwe okungezansi akusona isitatimende esingu-XNUMX% mayelana nemvelo nemikhuba yengxenye enhle yesintu. Kodwa amantombazane amaningi
- Njengoba benokudideka, cishe abalokothi banwaye amakhanda abo, ikakhulukazi phambi kwabantu abangabazi.
- Bakhumule izikibha namajezi, bawabambe ngezandla zombili ezansi emaceleni. Ngesikhathi amadoda ebambe ngemuva.
- Owesifazane ovamile ulahlekelwa unyaka owodwa wokuphila kwakhe ecabanga ukuthi uzogqokani.
- Bahlale belwela ukugcina okuthile ezandleni zabo, makube yimbali, isikhwama semali, isikhwama noma isambulela. Noma yini ukuze ugweme ukuzwa ukungakhululeki kanye namahloni okuza nokukhululeka kwezandla. Mhlawumbe yingakho izesekeli eziningi kangaka zabesifazane ziye zasungulwa.
- Uma udinga ukubheka izithende zakho, esikhundleni sokujikisa unyawo lwakho oluphakanyisiwe kuwe, ziyajika.
- Bagqoka ijakhethi kuqala, bese kuba kuphela ibhulukwe noma isiketi.
Amaqiniso esayensi
- Banohlobo lokuphefumula kwesifuba, abafani nabafana abaphefumula ngezisu. Ngaphandle kwezici zomzimba, intombazane engavamile izozivumela ukuba ikhiphe isisu sayo lapho ihogela, ngoba isifuba esikhuphuka sibukeka sibucayi kakhulu.
- Lapho behla entabeni noma kunoma iliphi igquma, bakwenza eceleni ukuze balondoloze ukulingana. Amadoda avele avule imilenze yawo abe banzi kancane.
- Umbono we-peripheral othuthukiswe kahle ikuvumela ukuthi ungaboni izinto ezingaphambili kuphela, kodwa futhi nemvelo ezungezile iyonke.
- Kodwa lapho bejikijela ukuphonsa, babuyisela isandla sabo, hhayi eceleni. Mhlawumbe ngenxa yalesi sizathu, abashayi ilitshe kaningi.
- Impango inyakaziswa kakhulu ngenxa yokuthi izinqe zabo zivuleke kakhulu futhi umgido onjalo othakathayo uziphumela wodwa.
- Banesidingo esikhulu sokuxhumana. Ngicabanga ukuthi nawe uyazi ngalokhu. Kodwa ngenxa yalesi sici, bayakwazi ukulalela interlocutor isikhathi eside futhi ngokucophelela.
- Izinhliziyo zabo zishaya kakhulu kunabafana. Futhi bacwayiza kabili kaningi.
ubuhlobo
- Uma betshela abafana ukuthi bahle, bamnandi futhi banomusa, ngakho-ke akufanele uthembele ebuhlotsheni bothando. Njengoba besho, bashaya indawo yomngane.
- Ngosuku, uma luhlelelwe kusihlwa, uzoqala ukulungiselela ekuseni. Futhi, okumangazayo kakhulu, cishe, uzokwazi ukufika sekwephuzile.
- Okokuqala nje, ukwazi abangane besoka lakhe, uzama ukubajabulisa, esebenzisa bonke ubuhle bakhe. Ngaphandle kubonakala sengathi udlala ngothando futhi udlala ngothando. Kodwa lokhu akubangelwa ukuthi ungumuntu odlala ngothando nokunye, kodwa ngoba ngale ndlela ufakwe umshwalense. Njengoba abangani, uma bemthanda, ngeke bavimbele isithandwa sakhe ukuba sithandana naye, simkholise ngokukhetha okungalungile.
- Amantombazane amaningi awacabangi abakhi bomzimba abakhangayo futhi be-sexy, ngakho-ke abakhethi abalingani.
Amaqiniso amangalisayo
- Lapho bependa izinkophe zabo, abakwazi ukumelana nokuvula imilomo yabo. Ngokuvamile ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukukhohlisa okunjalo.
- Uma bexhawula izandla, ngakho-ke abakwenzi ngomzamo onjalo njengabameleli bengxenye eqinile yesintu. Kungani ukuxhawula kungabonakali futhi kubonakale.
- Bajwayele nokuzamula kamnandi uma besemphakathini. Okungukuthi, vala umlomo wakho ngesandla sakho, hhayi isibhakela.
- Owesifazane ongavamile uzozilungiselela ngokwakhe isidlo esiyinkimbinkimbi. Kuphela ngenxa yothile osekulungele ukwenza okuthile, futhi naye angase adle ukudla nokunye okulula.
- Bangakwazi ukuthenga izingubo ezincane, hhayi ngoba bengazi inani lemali futhi abanandaba nokuthi bayisebenziselani. Ukuze uthole isisusa sokulahlekelwa isisindo.
- Ngokwezibalo maningi amathuba okuthi babambe iqhaza emicimbini eyahlukene yezinhlangano ezisiza umphakathi. Futhi lokhu akubalwa ukunakekelwa kwezilwane zasemgwaqweni, ezizondla ngaso sonke isikhathi uma kungenzeka.
Umlando
- Bathanda zonke izinhlobo zokhilimu, izifutho, izifihla-buso nezinye izinto ezingabenza babe bahle kakhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi ngenxa yesikhumba esihlanzekile nesikhazimulayo, balungele ukwenza noma yikuphi ukuzidela. Ngokwesibonelo, eRoma lasendulo, abahle babebeka izithukuthuku zama-gladiators ebusweni babo, bekholelwa ukuthi kwakuzobenza bakhange nakakhulu.
- Izinga lobuhle eRoma elifanayo lasendulo lalibhekwa njengabesifazane abasebasha abakhuluphele, noma abanomdlali wezemidlalo, njengonkulunkulukazi wokuzingela u-Athena. Futhi ku-Renaissance, imfashini ayivelanga nje kuphela egcwele, kodwa abesifazane abakhuluphele ngokweqile. Ekhulwini le-19, izintokazi ezizacile, ngezinye izikhathi eziminyene zaqala ukuthandwa, kwase kuba nokukhuluphala futhi. Namuhla, izindlela zobuhle zaziwa kwabaningi, i-90-60-90 ayikakakhanselwa.
Nokunye okwengeziwe
- Bawasha izitsha ikakhulukazi ngemva kokudla, hhayi ngaphambili, ngoba akukho ndawo yokuthela.
- Bathanda ukubuza imibuzo yokukhuluma ukuze babangele icala futhi bathole ukunakwa.
- Uma sikhuluma ngokunaka, amantombazane maningi amathuba okuthi azame ukuzibulala. Kodwa ngokwengxenye enkulu aziphumeleli, ngoba zazenziwa ukuze zibonise ukuthi zimbi kangakanani nokuthi ziludinga kakhulu uthando.
- Umbala obomvu awudonseli amadoda kuphela. Kuvele ukuthi nabesifazane basabela kuye, kuphela ngokuzonda, ngoba babona enye intokazi ebomvu njengembangi. Okungekho nhlobo abafuna ukukuyeka eduze kokhethiweyo wabo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umncintiswano ubukeka kanjani.
- Futhi bahlukanisa imibala eminingi nemibala. Izwe ngamehlo abantu lingase libonakale liyisicefe kubo.
- Uma ubacela ukuthi babonise izandla zabo, bazolula izandla zabo phansi, becabanga ukuthi umxhumanisi ufuna ukubhekisisa i-manicure yabo enhle.
Ucwaningo
- E-Toronto, ososayensi bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi ukugula ekuseni ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuyilungele ingane. Isicanucanu, ukuhlanza kanye nekhanda elibuhlungu kuwumphumela wezindlela zokuzivikela zomzimba, ezizama ukuvikela umbungu emiphumeleni yobuthi.
- Naphezu kwezothando nesifiso sokudala ubudlelwano, amantombazane, kuvela, athandana kamuva kakhulu kunabafana. Kuvele ukuthi ngemuva kwezinsuku zokuqala, umuzwa wothando wehlela u-25% wabesilisa ababambe iqhaza ocwaningweni. Futhi u-15% kuphela wabesifazane.
- Ochwepheshe abavela eMelika bathola ukutholakala, kuvela ukuthi ingxenye enhle yesintu iyakwazi ukuhogela ubulili obuhlukile. Futhi ngandlela thize emangazayo, ngisho “nephunga” ngokungazi ukuthi kuphakeme kangakanani ukungatheleleki kwakhe. Futhi iphunga lomuntu othandekayo liyabakhulula futhi libapholise. Okuphendula umbuzo wokuthi kungani abesifazane behlala bethatha amahembe noma ama-T-shirts kwabakhethiwe futhi balale kuwo.
Ukugcwaliswa
Futhi ekugcineni, ngizokutshela mayelana nesifundo sikaLiana Palermo, owathi ngo-2015 wanikeza abantu abayikhulu bobulili obuhlukene ukuba babambe ngekhanda inombolo ethile yamagama. Obekudinga ukukhiqizwa kabusha ngendlela efanele ngesikhawu sesikhathi esihlukile.
Okusho ukuthi, igama elithile lingabizwa ngemizuzu emi-5, kanti amanye ngisho nangosuku. Kwavela ukuthi abesifazane babekwazi ngekhanda kangcono, futhi leyo misebenzi eyayivele ihlolisisiwe yakhohlwa ngaso leso sikhathi.
Ososayensi bachaze lesi simo njengesidingo sokuthi abesifazane bagcine ulwazi oluningi emakhanda abo. Njengoba, ngaphezu komsebenzi, ngokuvamile yonke imisebenzi yasendlini igcinwa phezu kwabo. Ngenxa yalokho baqeqesha inkumbulo yabo ngokuhambisana.
Futhi yilokho kuphela okwanamuhla, bafundi abathandekayo! Zinakekele futhi ujabule!
Okokugcina, sincoma ukuthi ufunde isihloko esinamaqiniso mayelana namanzi, iningi lawo, siyaqiniseka ukuthi awazi.
Indaba ilungiswe isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, i-Gestalt Therapist, uZhuravina Alina