Ukwehluleka ukwazi kahle ukuthi iyini injabulo, okokuqala singazi isikhathi esihle. Ngokwenhlolovo yamaNgisi echaza umuzwa wethu wenjabulo ngokweminyaka, singajabula kakhulu eminyakeni engama-33. Umuntu obalulekile ekukhuleni kwethu, i-33 kungaba iminyaka yenjabulo? Ukubhala ngemfihlo.

Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwesiNgisi kanye nocwaningo olwenziwe yiwebhusayithi yeFriends Reunited kubantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-40, sikwazile ukubona iminyaka lapho, iningi labo, abantu bethi baba abajabule kakhulu.

Umphumela ugculisa impela: ama-70% abo aqinisekisile ukuthi abafinyelelanga esimweni esijabule ngempela kuze kube yiminyaka yobudala engama-33. Kwabangu-30% abasele, i-16% ikhomba ubuntwana noma ubusha njengesikhathi esijabulisa kakhulu, kanye nempilo yabafundi engu-6%.

Ujabule kakhulu, empilweni yakhe yokuba mdala, empilweni yomndeni wakhe, emshadweni wakhe, noma nje empilweni esiyikhethile ekugcineni. Ngoba iminyaka engama-33 ingukuqala kwezinqumo zangempela: lezo esivame ukuzenqaba eminyakeni engamashumi amabili, ngoba azivuthwanga ngokwanele noma asiqiniseki ngathi. Ekugcineni sesiphumile ebumsulwa, ubuqili, kepha sibhekene namaqiniso ngokwanele ukuthi sikwazi ukubona konke okusemandleni ethu, ithalente lethu, amaphupho ethu ukuthi afezeke futhi afinyeleleke. Kokubili ukuzimela nokuzimela, sikwazi, eminyakeni engama-33, ukwenza izinqumo ezisenza sijabule.

Uma sikhethe ukuba nezingane, basebancane kakhulu, futhi ukuzibuka kwabo zikhula kuyasijabulisa. Bazali, abangakanciki kithina ngenxa yeminyaka yabo yokuguga, ake sizimele sodwa. Uma uwedwa, uthokozela impilo yakho ngokuhamba, uphume, ube nempilo yenhlalo egculisayo nabangane abaningi, izikhuthazi zenjabulo.

Ukuchaza le mpendulo enkulu ehambelana neminyaka engama-33, abaphenduli baphendule:

• Ama-53% ukuthi babe nobumnandi obuningi kulesi sikhathi;
• Ama-42% ukuthi ayenethemba elikhulu ngekusasa;
• Ama-38% ukuthi bebengacindezelekile kangako;
• Ama-36% ukuthi ajabule ngokuba nezingane;
• Ama-31% ukuthi ajabule ngokuba nomndeni ndawonye;
• Abangu-21% babike impumelelo kwezobuchwepheshe kuleli phuzu empilweni yabo.

IEbuzwa yi-Friends Reunited, uDonna Dawson, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, unikeza incazelo yalokhu "Inkathi yegolide", kubhekwe iminyaka engu-20 entsha :

“Iminyaka yobudala engama-33 yisikhathi eside ngokwanele sokususa ubuwula bobuntwana noqhekeko olunonya lweminyaka yobusha, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa amandla nentshiseko yentsha. Kulesi sikhathi, ubumsulwa bulahlekile, kepha umqondo wethu weqiniso uxubene nomqondo oqinile wethemba, umoya "wenselelo", nokukholelwa okunempilo kumathalente ethu namakhono ethu. Asikakakhulumi ukugxeka nokukhathala okuza neminyaka elandelayo. ”

Le nkathi nayo ingokomfanekiso: inombolo engcwele kaPythagoras, futhi iyinkathi kaKristu ekufeni kwakhe kanye nenani lezimangaliso zakhe, inani lama-vertebrae emzimbeni womuntu kanye nezinga eliphakeme kakhulu le-franc. ukwakhiwa kwamatshe.

Kodwa-ke, ezinye izifundo zikhombise ezinye izindawo eziphakeme kakhulu zenjabulo nokuphelela empilweni yomuntu. Ngakho-ke uma ungaphezu kweminyaka engama-33 ubudala futhi ungakafiki ku-nirvana, ungethuki.

Ngokuya ngocwaningo olwenziwe yi-Hotmail (Microsoft) service service, iminyaka engama-55 ithathwa njengefanelekile. Ngempela, lesi yisikhathi lapho sibamba umoya wethu. Izingane sezikhulile, usekupheleni komsebenzi wakho, uchitha isikhathi esincane emsebenzini kodwa okuningi uzinakekela ngosuku. Uhamba kakhulu futhi uthokozela impilo kakhulu! Izindaba ezimnandi zamashumi amahlanu ngaphambi kokuthatha umhlalaphansi.

Kubantu abangaphezu kuka-55, konke akukapheli: ezinye izifundo zikhombise enye inkathi yegolide, ngisho nangaphezulu! Ucwaningo olwembulwe ngonyaka ka-2010 selukhulume ngeminyaka lapho kuhlangatshezwana khona nezimo zokujabula: kwakubalwa iminyaka yobudala… Phakathi kweminyaka engama-70 nengama-80!

Lokhu singakubiza ngokuthi “indida yenhlalakahle”, ngoba kusukela eminyakeni engama-65, sibhekene nezinselelo zomzimba nezengqondo, ngoba umzimba wehlisa isithunzi. Kodwa-ke, iminyaka ibuye ilethe ukuhlakanipha empilweni, ulwazi olungcono lomphakathi nemizwa yawo.

Kukhona-ke, futhi ngenhlanhla, izikhathi ezahlukahlukene empilweni zokuphumelela ekujabuleni ngokugcwele.