Okuqukethwe
Kuvunywa ngokujwayelekile ukuthi injabulo ubuncane bobuhlungu kanye nobuningi benjabulo. Nokho, imizwa engajabulisi evame ukusisiza ukuba sigxile esikhathini samanje futhi siqale ukukwazisa. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Bastian Brock ubonisa ngendima engalindelekile edlalwa ubuhlungu empilweni yawo wonke umuntu.
U-Aldous Huxley kwethi Izwe Elisha Elinesibindi wabikezela ukuthi ukuzijabulisa okungaphezi kuholela emuzweni wokuphelelwa ithemba emphakathini. Futhi u-Christina Onassis, indlalifa ka-Aristotle Onassis, wafakazela ngesibonelo sokuphila kwakhe ukuthi ukuzijabulisa ngokweqile kuyindlela yokudumazeka, ukungajabuli nokufa kusenesikhathi.
Ubuhlungu buyadingeka ukuqhathanisa nenjabulo. Ngaphandle kwakho, ukuphila kuba buthuntu, kuyisicefe futhi kungabi nanjongo nhlobo. Uma singezwa buhlungu, siba ama-chocolate esitolo sikashokoledi — akukho okumele sikulwele. Ubuhlungu buthuthukisa injabulo futhi bunomthelela emuzweni wenjabulo, busixhumanisa nezwe langaphandle.
Ayikho intokozo ngaphandle kobuhlungu
Okubizwa nge-"euphoria yomgijimi" yisibonelo sokuthola injabulo ebuhlungwini. Ngemva kokusebenza kanzima ngokomzimba, abagijimi baba nesimo sokujabula. Lokhu kuwumphumela wemiphumela ebuchosheni be-opioid, eyakhiwe kuyo ngaphansi kwethonya lobuhlungu.
Ubuhlungu buyizaba zokuzijabulisa. Isibonelo, abantu abaningi abazinciki lutho ngemva kokuya ejimini.
Mina nozakwethu senza ucwaningo: sacela ingxenye yezifundo ukuthi ibambe isandla emanzini eqhwa isikhashana. Babe sebecelwa ukuba bakhethe isipho: umaka noma ibha kashokoledi. Iningi labahlanganyeli abangazange bezwe ubuhlungu bakhethe umaka. Futhi labo abezwa ubuhlungu bancamela ushokoledi.
Ubuhlungu buthuthukisa ukugxila
Uhlanganyela engxoxweni ethakazelisayo, kodwa kungazelelwe uwisa incwadi esindayo ezinyaweni zakho. Uvele uthule, ukunaka kwakho konke kugxile emunweni owalinyazwa yincwadi. Ubuhlungu businika umuzwa wokuba khona okwamanje. Lapho ibohla, sigcina sigxile kulokho okwenzeka lapha namanje okwesikhashana, futhi sicabange kancane mayelana nesikhathi esidlule nekusasa.
Siphinde sathola ukuthi ubuhlungu bukhulisa ubumnandi. Abantu abadle ibhisikidi likashokoledi ngemva kokucwilisa izandla zabo emanzini eqhwa bajabulele kakhulu kunalabo abangazange bahlolwe. Ucwaningo olwalandela luye lwabonisa ukuthi abantu abasanda kuthola ubuhlungu bangcono ekuhlukaniseni izithunzi zokunambitha futhi banokugxeka okuncishisiwe ekujabuleleni abakutholayo.
Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi kungani kumnandi ukuphuza ushokoledi oshisayo lapho sibanda, futhi kungani inkomishi kabhiya obandayo iyintokozo ngemva kosuku olunzima. Ubuhlungu bukusiza ukuthi uxhumane nomhlaba futhi benza ubumnandi bujabulise futhi buqine.
Ubuhlungu busixhumanisa nabanye abantu
Labo ababhekana nenhlekelele yangempela bazizwa benobunye bangempela nalabo ababeseduze. Ngo-2011, amavolontiya angama-55 asiza ukwakha kabusha iBrisbane yase-Australia ngemuva kwesikhukhula, kanti abantu baseNew York bahlangana ngemuva kwenhlekelele ye-11/XNUMX.
Sekuyisikhathi eside imikhosi yobuhlungu isetshenziselwa ukuhlanganisa amaqembu abantu. Isibonelo, abahlanganyeli emkhosini weKavadi esiqhingini saseMauritius bazihlanza emicabangweni nasezenzweni ezimbi ngokuzihlukumeza. Ababe yingxenye yomcimbi futhi bagcina isiko babezimisele kakhulu ukunikela ngemali ezidingweni zomphakathi.
Olunye uhlangothi lobuhlungu
Ubuhlungu ngokuvamile buhlotshaniswa nokugula, ukulimala, nokunye ukuhlupheka ngokomzimba. Kodwa-ke, siphinde sibhekane nobuhlungu phakathi nemisebenzi yethu yansuku zonke, enempilo impela. Kungaba ngisho nokwelapha. Isibonelo, ukucwiliswa njalo kwezandla emanzini eqhwa kunomphumela omuhle ekwelapheni i-amyotrophic lateral sclerosis.
Ubuhlungu abubi njalo. Uma singesabi futhi siqaphela izici zayo ezinhle, singayilawula ngempumelelo.
Mayelana nombhali: UBrock Bastian uyisazi sokusebenza kwengqondo eNyuvesi yaseMelbourne.