Okufanele ukwenze uma ingane ihlukunyezwa enkulisa noma esikoleni

Izingane zehlukile. Abanye bayalwa, bamemeze, baziphathise okwezidlakela, baze balume! Futhi ezinye izingane zihlala zikuthola kubo.

Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziyavuma: ngokwemvelo, izingane zenzelwe ukudlala imigilingwane, futhi zigijime, futhi zincintisane ngobuholi. Futhi abazali nothisha basathanda izingane ezingezwa noma ezingabonwa.

Kepha kunoma yisiphi isikhungo sezingane, ngokuqinisekile kuzoba okungenani "nomntwana owesabekayo" ongacabangi abafundisi noma amaqabane akhe. Futhi nabantu abadala abaphumeleli ngaso sonke isikhathi ekuyidambiseni.

URaul (igama lishintshiwe. - Approx. WDay) uya enkulisa ejwayelekile eSt. Unina usebenza lapha njengomsizi wothisha, futhi ubaba wakhe uyisosha. Kubukeka sengathi umfana kufanele azi ukuthi siyini isiyalo, kodwa cha: sonke isifunda siyazi ukuthi uRaul "akalawuleki". Ingane ikwazile ukucasula wonke umuntu ongakwazi, ikakhulukazi ofunda nabo enkulisa.

Enye yamantombazane yakhononda kunina:

- URaul akavumeli muntu ukuthi alale “ngehora elithulile”! Uyafunga, alwe aze alume!

Unina wentombazane, uKarina, wethuka kakhulu: kuthiwani uma lo Raul ezocasula indodakazi yakhe?

- Yebo, umfana ukhathazekile ngokweqile futhi ukhathazekile ngokweqile, - othisha bayavuma, - Kodwa ngasikhathi sinye uhlakaniphile futhi unelukuluku lokwazi! Udinga nje indlela yomuntu ngamunye.

Kodwa umama uKarina wayengajabule ngalesi simo. Ube esefaka isicelo sokuvikelwa kumfana onolaka kuSvetlana Agapitova, Ombudsman for Children's Rights eSt.

“Ngeshwa, sinezikhalazo eziningi ngokuziphatha kwezingane,” kuvuma umphenyi wezikhalazo wezingane. - Abanye abazali baze bakholelwe ukuthi ezimweni ezinjalo amalungelo ama-fighters avikelekile njalo, futhi akekho noyedwa onaka izintshisekelo zezinye izingane. Kepha lokhu akulona iqiniso ngokuphelele - izinkulisa zimane nje azikwazi ukudlulisela ingane kwelinye iqembu ngemuva kwesiginali ngayinye. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kungaba nokunganeliseki, bese kuthiwani-ke?

Isimo sijwayelekile: ingane kufanele ifunde ukuhlala eqenjini, kepha kuthiwani uma iqembu libubula kuye? Kudingeka kangakanani ukuhlonipha amalungelo ezingane ezingasebenzi kahle, okuthi ngokuziphatha kwazo, ziphazamise inkululeko yezingane ezijwayelekile? Ikuphi imingcele yokubekezela nokubekezelelana?

Kubonakala sengathi le nkinga iba nzima ngokwengeziwe emphakathini, futhi le ndaba iyisiqinisekiso salokhu.

Abazali bakaRaoul abaphiki ukuthi kunezinkinga ekuziphatheni kukaRaoul, futhi bavuma ukukhombisa indodana yabo kudokotela wezifo zengqondo yengane. Manje umfana usebenza nothisha-isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, uya ngezikhathi zokwelulekwa komndeni, futhi uvakashela izikhungo zokuxilonga.

Abafundisi baze bathatha isinqumo sokwenzela ingane uhlelo lwesifundo ngasinye futhi banethemba lokuthi usazofunda ukuzilawula. Ngeke baxoshe uRaoul enkulisa.

"Umsebenzi wethu ukusebenza nazo zonke izingane: ukulalela hhayi kakhulu, ukuthula nokuzwela, ukuzola nokuhamba," kusho othisha. - Kumele sithole indlela eya enganeni ngayinye, sicabangele izici zayo. Lapho nje inqubo yokuzivumelanisa neqembu elisha isiphelile, uRaul uzoziphatha kangcono.

"Abafundisi baqinisile: izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile azikwazi ukunganakwa, ngoba, njengabo bonke abantu, zinelungelo lokufunda kanye nokuzijabulisa," kusho uSvetlana Agapitova.

Enkulisa uKarina wathenjiswa ukuthi adlulisele indodakazi yakhe kwelinye iqembu, kude noRaoul. Kodwa umama wentombazane wenqabile, esabisa ngokuqhubeka nomzabalazo wokuqeda "ingane engakhululekile" kwezinye izimo.

Interview

Ngabe izingane "ezingalawuleki" zingafunda ndawonye nezabantu abajwayelekile?

  • Vele, ngoba kungenjalo ngeke bajwayele impilo emphakathini.

  • Akunasimo. Kungaba yingozi ezinganeni ezijwayelekile.

  • Kungani kungenjalo? Ingane ngayinye enjalo kuphela okufanele inakekelwe njalo nguchwepheshe.

  • Ngizoshiya inguqulo yami kumazwana

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