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Umama wekhaya: kungani sizizwa sihlukanisiwe?
Ukuba ngumama kuyisiphithiphithi esikhulu empilweni yowesifazane! Ukufika kancane endlini kuhlanganisa ukunaka kwakhe sonke isikhathi sakhe. Imikhuba yempilo, ikakhulukazi lapho umuntu ematasa nempilo yobungcweti, kanye nesigqi sosuku siyashintshwa. Ukuphila kwansuku zonke manje kugxile ezidingweni zosana olusanda kuzalwa: ukuncelisa ibele noma ukuncelisa ibhodlela, ukushintsha amanabukeni, ukugeza, umsebenzi wasendlini ... Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhathala namahomoni kuyahlangana, ungase uzwe ukucindezeleka okukhulu. Qiniseka ukuthi omama abaningi banezingane ezincane eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Qaphela ukuthi ezimweni eziningi lokhu kuphatheka kabi akungeni ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngokuphumula, sithola amandla nokuziphatha. Konke lokhu kungokwesikhashana nje!
Yini ongayenza ukuze uzizwe ungedwa uma ungumama wekhaya?
Lapho nje ubuyela ekhaya uvela ekubeni ngumama, kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale uthintana nabathandekayo bakho. Noma uzizwa ukhathele kakhulu futhi ubhekana nemiphumela yokulethwa kwakho, zisindise izikhathi ezincane ukushaya ucingo, ukwethula ingane yakho kubangani bakho, qala incwadi encane eyabiwe ... Ukuxhumana kuzokusiza uzizwe ungewedwa futhi waneliseke kakhulu ngengane yakho. Ukuhamba ngezinqola nokuhamba ngezinyawo epaki kungenziwa ngamaqembu! Mhlawumbe, ohamba nabo, abanye omama bafuna nje ukukuphelezela? Uma izingane zakho zisesikoleni, ungangabazi ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yesikole. Kanjani? 'Noma' Yini? Ngokuba umzali ongumphelezeli ohambweni lwesikole, ummeleli wekilasi noma ilungu lenhlangano yesikole. Kuyindlela enhle yokuxhumana nabantu abasesimweni sakho. Eduze kwesikole, baningi nabanye izinhlangano zomama ukuxoxisana nokudala ubungane.
Umbhangqwana usiza ekuzizweni uwedwa
Ngaphambi kokuba ngumama, ungowesifazane nesithandwa, futhi. Umlingani wakho, ngisho noma echitha izinsuku zakhe emsebenzini, angakusiza unqamule ukuzihlukanisa. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukugcina inkhulumomphendvulwano iqhubeka ngokwabelana ngezithombe noma ngokushaya izingcingo nsuku zonke, imisebenzi ehlanganyelwe noma ukumemela abanye abashadile endlini ukuze badle isidlo sakusihlwa. Kuthiwani ngokuletha umzanyana noma ogogo nomkhulu bazogada isizwe sakho? Ithuba lokuthi a ukuphuma okuncane kwababili ilungele ukuqinisa izibopho nokufaka amafutha enhliziyweni.
Ukuthola isikhathi sakho njengomama wokuhlala ekhaya
Ukugcina okuthandwa nguwe kanye nolwazi kugwema ukuzehlisa, kancane kancane uhoxe empilweni yezenhlalo ngaphansi kwezaba lokuthi “akukho okuthakazelisayo esingakutshela”. Isikhathi sokulala singasetshenziselwa funda incwadi enhle, qala ukuqeqeshwa kwedijithali noma uthintane nabanye omama ngezinkundla zokuxhumana. Ungakwazi futhi ukuphathisa izingane zakho ihora kumakhelwane noma kumngane, futhi uye ekilasini le-yoga noma uhambe uyoshaywa umoya. Isikhathi sakho nje, ngesinye isikhathi esokuzindla noma ukuphupha, okukuvumela ukuthi uhlehle bese uthola izingane zakho ngentokozo ... Kuyakufanelekela! Ngoba ukuba ngumama wekhaya kuwumsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele onawo wonke umthwalo wengqondo ohambisana nawo.
Joyina inhlangano
Uma ungakwazi ukubekezelela ukungasebenzi, ungakwazi futhi hlanganyela emisebenzini yokuzithandela okuzokuthatha amahora ambalwa nje ngesonto. Ngokwesibonelo, kungenzeka ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umtapo wezincwadi wesifunda sakho uhlala unomphela, ukujabulisa abagulayo nabantu abadala ezindaweni zezokwelapha nenhlangano ye-Blouses Roses noma ukusabalalisa ukudla kwabancishwe amathuba kakhulu ne-Restos du Cœur. Ziningi izinhlangano ezidinga amavolontiya akulindile!