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Amaphupho ezocansi: bafuna kanjalo, yileyo ndlela abafuna ngayo
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Nakuba abesifazane bevame ukuba nemicabango ejulile neyothando, babonisa ukukhetha imisebenzi yokuhlola noma imizwa emisha.
Ingabe siqotho uma kuziwa ekuvezeni esikuthandayo embhedeni kumlingani wethu? Futhi uma kuziwa ekwabelaneni imicabango yocansi? Cishe i-77% yemibhangqwana okuxoxiswene nayo yathi inobudlelwano obuqotho mayelana nokuthanda kwabo ucansi kanye nezifiso zabo, ngokusho kwedatha yocwaningo lwakamuva olwenziwe yi-Sexplace.es, ephinda iveze ukuthi, nakuba amadoda kuyiwo abeka izinselelo ezihlukahlukene kakhulu imibhangqwana yabo, abesifazane yibona abahamba kakhulu ezitolo ezikhethekile beyofuna imidlalo, amathoyizi noma imibono ukuze baphinde benze ngasese.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi uma kukhulunywa ngokuthanda ucansi nokuthandwayo kukhona zonke izinhlobo ze-casuistry, cishe eziningi njengabantu, kodwa kukhona amanothi avamile uma sikhuluma "Imicabango evame kakhulu yocansi kubo" y "Imicabango yocansi evame kakhulu kubo", njengoba kuchazwe isazi sezocansi kwa-Sexplace.es, u-Laura Hermoso.
Umehluko phakathi kwabo nabo
Amaphupho avamile ocansi wesilisa avame ukuba ngaphezulu iyahlola, okungukuthi, okuhlobene nemisebenzi efana nocansi lweqembu noma ukusesha imizwa emisha njengokuthi “uya ocansini nabesifazane abambalwa ngesikhathi esisodwa”, “ukushintshana ngophathina” noma “ukuhlanganyela ekuzijabuliseni”. Banentshisekelo futhi, ngokusho kukaLaura Hermoso, umdlalo wokulingisa, ubuthakathi, ucansi lwendunu kanye nokuya ocansini nemibhangqwana yeminyaka eyahlukene.
Bathanda ikakhulukazi, ngokusho kwesazi sezocansi, amaphupho aseduze nawothando. Ngakho, bathola umkhuba wocansi ukhanga ku Izimo ehlukile (i-hood yemoto, ithala le-attic, i-jacuzzi, igumbi lokushintshela ...), ucansi nomuntu ophethe (ngomkhuba we-BDSM), ucansi nomuntu ongamazi noma ngisho nocansi olungahleliwe nomuntu ongamazi kanye nomkhuba wocansi izindawo zothando. Baphinde bathole inketho yokushintshisana ngozakwethu ikhanga uma kuziwa ekucabangeni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, isazi sezocansi sichaza ukuthi bagxila kakhulu ku- Imininingwane futhi bayakujabulela ukungeza noma ukuhlobisa izigcawu ngezinto ezithile (indlela enuka ngayo, ukuthi indawo injani, ukukhanya kunjani, umculo olalelwayo…) abawubheka njengobalulekile. Amadoda, ngokuphambene nalokho, aqondile futhi atshela isenzo noma iqiniso ngokwalo, kodwa ngaphandle kwemininingwane eminingi.
Lapho ukhuluma nge imicabango embalwa Ukuvumelana ngokuvamile akuvamile ukuba kube nzima, ngokusho kochwepheshe, njengoba amaphupho angaba nezixhumanisi ezifanayo lapho omunye nomunye anganikeza inkululeko yokufisa izifiso zabo. Ngalo mqondo, isazi sezocansi sigqamisa ukubaluleka kokukhulumisana nokwabelana, okubalulekile ukubhekana nokuthandwa nokuthandwa okuhlukile kwezocansi. Iphuzu elilodwa alivezayo ukuthi, ngokuvamile, bathambekele ekunikeleni okungaphezu kwalokho abakwenzayo ngomkhuba wokuqamba amanga.
Yini okhathazeke ngayo kakhulu ocansini?
Nakuba amadoda ekhathazekile ngezindaba ezinjengokungalinganisi embhedeni, ukufinyelela i-orgasm noma ukushukunyiswa, endabeni yamadoda kuvame ukuba ukukhathazeka kwabo kuhlobene neqiniso lokuthi umlingani akafuni ukusebenzisa ikhondomu, kungenzeka izifo ezithathelwanayo, ukuthi imizimba yabo ayikhangi noma abaqondi noma abazi ukuthi bangahumusha kanjani ukuthi “cha” njengempendulo.
Bakhathazekile
- Ukuthi abashadile abafuni ukusebenzisa ikhondomu
- Ukuthi umbhangqwana unesifo se-venereal
- Ukuthi ikhondomu liyaphuka bese kuba nokukhulelwa okungafunwa
- Ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi umzimba wabo awukhangi
- Ukuthi “cha” akuqondakali njengezimpendulo
- Ukuthi umbhangqwana awufiki ku-orgasm
- Ukuthi babi embhedeni
Bakhathazekile
- Ukuthi umbhangqwana unesifo se-venereal
- Ukuthi umbhangqwana awufiki ku-orgasm
- Uhlushwa ukuchama ngaphambi kwesikhathi
- Ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi umzimba wabo awukhangi
- Ukuthi akwenzeki ukuthi benze ucansi
- Ukuthi babi embhedeni
- Ukuthi bacabanga kabi ubukhulu bomthondo
Ingozi yokusebenzisa kabi “i-porn yasekhaya”
Enye yemikhuba engaba nomthelela ekuhlanekeni kwemicabango yocansi ukwanda kocansi amavidiyo amateur kumaphothali afana ne-pornhub noma afanayo. Njengoba uchwepheshe we-Sexplace echaza, ukufinyelela okulula kulezi zinhlobo zamawebhusayithi anikeza izinkulungwane zamavidiyo ocansi enziwe ekhaya kusho ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yomphakathi ingafinyelela kuwo. izigcawu ezivusa inkanuko yemibhangqwana okuthiwa ingokoqobo ngokusobala ebonisa ubulili bansuku zonke. "Okubonwa njengento yansuku zonke noma umkhuba kulawa mavidiyo akuyona into yangempela nhlobo. Badalwe ukuze bajabule futhi ngenxa yalokho bafune ukusetshenziswa okusheshayo futhi akubonisi iqiniso lobudlelwano. Idala iqiniso elingamanga mayelana nobudlelwano bocansi ”, kuxwayisa isazi socansi, esigqamisa iqiniso lokuthi kulawa mavidiyo akukho okukhulunywa ngakho ngocansi.okokuqala futhi nokuthuthukiswa kwangempela kwesigaba ngasinye sobudlelwane obuseduze kubonakala kubo. Uthi: “Lokho ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kanye nalezo zinyathelo kubalulekile ebuhlotsheni bobulili.
Abantu abangathinteka kakhulu kulolu hlobo lwamavidiyo, ngokusho kwesazi sezocansi u-Laura Hermoso, abantu abasha futhi abangenalwazi, abangabona kulawa mavidiyo ezinye izimo zengqondo noma ukuziphatha okungahlanekezela umbono wabo wokuthi yini okufanele ngempela babe ubuhlobo obuseduze. .
IZINKOMO EZINGAMANGA NGOCANSI
- Usayizi Wezindaba? Cha, ukukwazi ubukhulu bomthondo kuyathandwa. Ubude obujwayelekile bungamasentimitha ayi-13.
- Ingabe ucansi lwendunu luyazenzekela? Cha, kudinga inzalo kubo bobabili abathintekayo, ukulungiselela (ukugcoba), ukushelela nokusebenza.
- Ingabe inani lobudlelwano linendaba? Ukukhuluma ngobuhlobo bobulili bangaphambili akusaseyona inzondo futhi kuyisithiyo esesinqotshiwe.
- Ingabe i-orgasm ihlale ingumgomo? Ukuzijabulisa kuwumgomo. Abesifazane abathandana nobulili obuhlukile banama-orgasm ambalwa kakhulu ngesikhathi socansi lozakwethu, ngaphansi kwanoma yiliphi elinye iqembu: abesilisa abathandana nobulili obuhlukile, abesilisa abathandana nabobulili obufanayo.