Umphumela ongokomzwelo walokho esikufunde kubazali bethu singanakile unamandla kunalokho esikufunda ngokuqaphela. Lokhu kukhiqizwa kabusha ngokuzenzakalelayo noma nini lapho sisemizweni, futhi sihlala sisemizweni, ngoba sihlala sinengcindezi. Ingxoxo ka-Alexander Gordon ne-psychotherapist u-Olga Troitskaya. www.psychologos.ru
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I-Psychotherapy ngokwemvelo idlulisela, njengomyalezo wayo, umbono othi "Ngimncane, umhlaba mkhulu."
Wonke umuntu une-deformation yakhe yobungcweti. Uma iminyaka iphoyisa libona amasela, abakhwabanisi nezifebe kuphela phambi kwamehlo alo, ngezinye izikhathi imibono yalo ngabantu iyancipha ngokungaqondakali. Uma i-psychotherapist ifika kulabo abangakwazi ukubhekana nobunzima bokuphila bebodwa, abangakwazi ukuthola ukuqondana nabanye, abakuthola kunzima ukuzilawula bona kanye nezifunda zabo, abangajwayele ukwenza izinqumo ezinomthwalo wemfanelo, lokhu kancane kancane kwakha isisekelo sokuziphatha. umbono wochwepheshe we-psychotherapist.
Udokotela wokusebenza kwengqondo ngokuvamile wenza imizamo yokwandisa ukuzethemba kwesiguli ngamakhono aso, nokho-ke, usuka esibonelweni esingashiwongo (isisekelo) sokuthi empeleni umuntu akanakulindela lukhulu esigulini. Abantu beza esimisweni sokubonana bengekho esimweni esihle kakhulu, ngemizwa, imvamisa abakwazi ngisho nokucacisa ngokucacile isicelo sabo - beza esikhundleni soMhlukumezi ... kanye nokungenele ngokomsebenzi embonweni we-psychotherapeutic. Okuwukuphela kwento engaqondiswa esigulini ukubeka izinto ngokuhleleka kwakho, ukuzuza ukuzwana kwangaphakathi, nokuzivumelanisa nezwe. Ukusebenzisa isingathekiso, kudokotela wokusebenza kwengqondo, umhlaba uvame ukuba mkhulu futhi unamandla, futhi umuntu (okungenani owafika ukuzombona) mncane futhi ubuthakathaka maqondana nezwe. Bona →
Imibono enjalo ingaba yisici sakho kokubili i-psychotherapist kanye "nendoda evela emgwaqweni" egcwele imibono nezinkolelo ezinjalo.
Uma iklayenti selivele likholelwa ukuthi lincane phambi kokungazi lutho okukhulu, kungase kube nzima ukumkholisa, kuhlale kunesilingo sokusebenza naye ngendlela ye-psychotherapeutic. Ngokufanayo, ngakolunye uhlangothi: iklayenti elikholelwa emandleni alo siqu, ngamandla okuqonda nokucabanga kwalo, lizogquma ngokungabaza lapho likhuluma ngokuqulekile. Ngokufanayo, uma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ngokwaso sikholelwa emandleni engqondo, uzobe ekholisa ekuthuthukisweni kwengqondo. Uma engakholelwa emqondweni futhi ekholelwa ekuqulekeni, uzoba yi-psychotherapist kuphela.