I-BDSM isifinyezo esamukelwe emhlabeni wonke esihlanganisa imikhuba yocansi ehlukile futhi imele "ubugqila, ukubusa, ukudabuka, i-masochism." Esikhathini esidlule, i-BDSM yayibhekwa njengephambukile futhi ye-pathological, kodwa muva nje izimo zengqondo ngayo zishintshile.
Ngokwemiphumela entsha , isithakazelo ku-BDSM sivame kakhulu eFinland.
Njengengxenye yocwaningo, ababambiqhaza abangu-8 babuzwa imibuzo ehlukahlukene ehlobene ne-BDSM. Baphinde baphumelela ukuhlolwa kobuntu. Ngakho-ke, i-137% yabesifazane kanye ne-37% yamadoda yayibuswe ngokocansi okungenani kanye, kuyilapho u-23% wabesifazane kanye nama-25% amadoda ayebusa abalingani babo ngokocansi okungenani kanye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-32% yabesifazane kanye ne-38% yamadoda ibike intshisekelo ku-BDSM.
"Abantu bangase bacabange ukuthi leli yiqembu le-niche kakhulu, kodwa imiphumela iqokomisa ukujwayelekile okumangalisayo kwesithakazelo esiboniswe ku-BDSM," kusho umlobi wocwaningo uMarkus Paarnio.
Abacwaningi baphinde bathola ukuthi kokubili abesilisa nabesifazane ababenentshisekelo ku-BDSM bangachazwa ngokuthi "bavulekele ulwazi olusha" futhi abesifazane ngokuvamile ngokuthi "abangenandawo encane". Kodwa lobu budlelwano "bebuqinile kakhulu, okuholele ekutheni kungabi naziphetho ezingokoqobo." “Kubukeka sengathi ubuntu babantu abathanda i-BDSM abuhlukile kulabo abangafuni,” kusho uPaarnio.
Kuphinde kwatholakala ukuthi intsha kanye nabantu abangabobulili obuhlukile banesithakazelo kakhulu ku-BDSM.
Nokho, ezinye izinguquko ezibalulekile azizange zicatshangelwe kulolu cwaningo. Ososayensi abazange bayicabangele imfundo yabaphendulile. "Umsebenzi wangaphambili ukhomba ukuthi abasebenzi be-BDSM ngokuvamile bafunde kakhulu kunabangewona," kusho u-Markus Paarnio.
Naphezu kwedatha entsha, ososayensi basenokuningi okumele bakufunde mayelana nengqondo ye-BDSM. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, izifundo zesikhathi esizayo kuzofanele zicabangele indaba yokusabalala kwayo emazweni ahlukene.
Umbhalo: Tatyana Zasypkina