UDiana Shurygina oneminyaka engu-17 ubudala waba isisulu sokuhlukunyezwa ngemva kokusola umngane wakhe ngokudlwengula. Abasebenzisi bezokuxhumana bahlukaniswe ngamakamu amabili. Abanye baqala ukusekela intombazane ngentshiseko, abanye - umfana. Umbhali wekholomu u-Arina Kholina uxoxa ngokuthi kungani le ndaba ibangele umsindo onjalo nokuthi kungani umphakathi uthanda ukubonakaliswa konya.
Lowo ohlukunyeziwe nguyena onecala. Owesifazane kufanele abe nesizotha. Owesifazane odakiwe uyisisulu sezinkinga. Udlwenguliwe - ucasukile. "Isifebe" akusona isihawu.
Zonke lezi zimfundiso ezijwayelekile zivezwe yilabo abakholelwa ukuthi u-Diana Shurygina oneminyaka engu-17 ubudala "uyisikhumba" esizisebenzelayo esaletha uSergei Semenov oneminyaka engu-21 ngaphansi kwalesi sihloko. UDiana wahamba noSergei (kanye nabangane) bephuma edolobheni, baya endlini encane lapho amdlwengula khona. Icala lokudlwengula lifakazelwe enkantolo.
Kodwa i-Intanethi imelene nakho - uDiana akagqokile kanjalo, akaziphathi kanjalo, akasabeli kanjalo. “Ubecabangani? i-inthanethi iyabuza. “Ngaya endaweni ethile nendoda, ngaphuza ugologo. I-Intanethi ixoxa ngokungathí sina ukuthi intombazane yayiphuze kangakanani i-vodka. Lowo ngumbuzo owujuqu, akunjalo? Ngaphuza kancane - kahle, ehloniphekile. Okuningi - i-slut, ngakho uyayidinga.
Indaba, ngokweqiniso, njengevela kumafilimu kaLars von Trier. Uthanda isixuku esidangele, esikhetha isisulu futhi simbhubhise. Umphakathi udinga ukuzidela. Umphakathi udinga «abathakathi».
Ngonyaka odlule, u-Brock Stoker, umfundi wase-Stanford, wadlwengula intombazane eyadakwa yawa ndawana thize otshanini. “Indodana yami ayikwazi ukuya ejele ngenxa yezenzo ezithathe imizuzu engu-20 kuphela,” kusho uyise wale nsizwa.
Abazali Sergei Semenov bakholelwa ukuthi Diana waphula ukuphila kwakhe. “Umfana wami usejezisiwe,” kusho ubaba kaBrock. “Ikusasa lakhe alisoze lafana naleli abephupha ngalo. Uxoshiwe eStanford, ucindezelekile, akamomotheki, akakuthandi ukudla.”
UStoker wanikwa isikhathi esincane. Izinyanga eziyisithupha. Ihlazo lalibi kakhulu ngenxa yalokhu, kodwa wehla nesijeziso sezinyanga eziyisithupha.
Iqiniso eliqinile ukuthi umphakathi uthanda ukubonakaliswa konya. Yebo, akuzona zonke, kunjalo. Kodwa abaningi bathanda ubudlova. Hhayi phezu kwakho. Futhi hhayi ngokwethu. Futhi okude, okumangalisayo
Mphakathi, masikhulume iqiniso, uyababekezelela abahlukumeza ngokocansi. “Awu, yini? bayaphikisana. — Ingabe kunzima kangaka kuye? Umfana wahlupheka, futhi uma ekhululekile nhlobo, wayeyothola injabulo. Usabukeka njengesifebe.”
Umphakathi ngokuvamile unobungane kulabo abanonya kwabesifazane. UKim Kardashian wagetshengwa, waboshwa, wasatshiswa ngesibhamu, wethuka waze wafa. Futhi i-intanethi ithi: kwakungekho lutho lokuziqhayisa ngobucwebe bakho ku-Instagram (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia). Icele. Noma ingabe konke kuyi-PR. Kuthiwani uma uKanye West egetshengwa? Noma ubani esimthandayo? UTom Hiddleston. Kukhona ukuzethemba ukuthi bazozwelana naye ngoba nje akayena umuntu wesifazane.
Iqiniso eliqinile ukuthi umphakathi uthanda ukubonakaliswa konya. Yebo, akuzona zonke, kunjalo. Kodwa abaningi bathanda ubudlova. Hhayi phezu kwakho. Futhi hhayi ngokwethu. Futhi okunjalo, okukude, okumangalisayo.
Udlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane abaningi lubonwa njengento ethinta ucansi. Cha, abacabangi nhlobo. Bacabanga ukuthi “kunguye onecala” kanye nokunye ukuhlubuka okusindisayo. Kodwa empeleni, bayawujabulela umcabango wokuthi "isifebe samthola." U-Rocco Sifreddi udubula njenge-porn evamile, hhayi abathandi be-BDSM, wonke umuntu uyayibuka. Kodwa lokhu kuyi-porn enobudlova kakhulu, futhi abalingisi bathola ukulimala kwangempela lapho.
Kodwa lesi sihlava sibukwa izigidi. Impela ngoba amadoda afuna ukuba nonya. Lesi isikhungo sabo socansi senzalamizi. Abesifazane ababekezelela amadoda anjalo banonya nakakhulu ohlotsheni lwabo, kulabo abalokotha bavukele uhlelo.
Owesifazane ohlukunyezwayo uhlala ehlangothini lomhlukumezi. "Akaqondi." Lona owahlubuka, uyimbuka, uyawubuza wonke lo mbono. Manje? Siyamzonda
Kuyadabukisa ukuthi kunamadoda amaningi kangaka aphelelwe ithemba, angajabule, athukuthele emhlabeni wonke ubulili nobudlova kuyinto eyodwa kubo. Futhi kunabesifazane abaningi abangazi olunye uhlelo, abasetshenziselwa iqiniso lokuthi ubuhlobo phakathi kwabalingani buyi-hierarchy, ubushiqela nokululazeka.
Kwabesilisa abanjalo, owesifazane ocansini uhlala eyisisulu, ngoba abakholelwa ukuthi owesifazane uyabafuna ngempela. Futhi isisulu sowesifazane ngaso sonke isikhathi sisohlangothini lomhlukumezi. "Akaqondi." Lona owahlubuka, uyimbuka, uyawubuza wonke lo mbono. Manje? Siyamzonda.
Kuyashaqisa uma ubona ukuthi bangaki abantu besifazane abahlala nama-sadists acashile (hhayi kanjalo). Bangaki abesifazane ababona «isijeziso» njengento engenakugwenywa. Ngokwezinga elithile noma kwelinye, cishe wonke umuntu unaso.
Kudabukisa u-Diana Shurygin, kodwa uyiqhawekazi, cishe uJoan wase-Arc, owenza wonke umuntu abonise ubunjalo bakhe bangempela. Asikho izibalo ezingenza lokho. Kuze kube manje, lesi sinqumo siyadabukisa - umphakathi ugula kakhulu unesimo esibucayi sokwakhiwa kwezindlu. Cishe u-1:3 ovuna udlame. Kodwa lolu phiko nalo lubalulekile. Uthi kukhona umnyakazo. Nokuthi kukhona abantu abazi kahle ukuthi isisulu sihlezi siqinisile. Akanacala ngalutho. Futhi awukho omunye umbono.