Okuqukethwe
Khipha ngosuku olufanayo nokwehluka okungu-6 ngaphezulu phakathi kokubeletha eRussia nakwamanye amazwe
Abesifazane emhlabeni wonke benziwa ngokufanayo. Noma kunjalo, ukukhulelwa nokubeletha kuhlukile yonke indawo.
Kuyisiko lethu ukukhononda ngemithi - cishe wonke umuntu unendaba yakhe esabekayo ngodokotela abangenandaba nabangakwazi ukusebenza. Kepha kunamazwe lapho izinto zimbi kakhulu khona. Futhi lawa akuwona neze amazwe abuyela emuva e-Afrika, kepha amazwe athuthukile kakhulu, athuthukile. Sinqume ukuqhathanisa ukuthi ukubeletha kubukeka kanjani ezweni lethu nakwamanye amazwe - futhi ukuqhathanisa akukona njalo ukuxhasa ukwelashwa kwangaphandle.
1. Kuyabiza
Ngathi ungabeletha mahhala, ngokusho kwenqubomgomo yomshwalense wezokwelapha oyimpoqo. Umshwalense uhlanganisa cishe yonke into kusuka ekuphathweni kokukhulelwa kuya ekuzalweni kozakwethu. Kuyiqiniso, ngeshwa, bambalwa abazi ngamalungelo abo ngakho-ke baya ekubelethweni okukhokhelwayo - ngenxa yenduduzo eqinisekisiwe. Futhi e-USA, isibonelo, akunakwenzeka ukuzala mahhala. Ezinye zezinsizakalo zesibhedlela zimbozwe umshuwalense, kepha imali ekhokhwayo emaphakathi engu- $ 2 kusamele ikhokhwe yithi uqobo. Abanye omama baze bathi kuthatha iminyaka ukukhokha izikweletu zesibhedlela - izingane sezivele ziya esikoleni, futhi zonke izikweletu azivaliwe. Imithi e-United States, empeleni, ibiza kakhulu. Kodwa izimo zibuye zintofontofo, futhi nesimo sengqondo ngabesifazane ababelethayo kufanelekile - isimo somama abasebancane sihlolwa cishe njalo isigamu sehora.
Kodwa eCanada nakwa-Israyeli, umshwalense uhlanganisa izinsizakalo zezibhedlela zabakhulelwe, futhi omama abakhonondi ngezimo: kulula, futhi kuyathokomala - cishe kufana nasekhaya.
2. Kusengaphambili - ungezi
Singalaliswa esibhedlela, ngokususelwa ekubalweni kokuqala kosuku lokuzalwa: selokhu udokotela wezifo zabesifazane athi ngoJanuwari 5 ukubeletha, kusho ukuthi ngemuva nje konyaka omusha, phakamisa izinto zakho bese uyolala. ENtshonalanga, akekho ozokwenza lokhu: beza esibhedlela ngokudalulwa okugcwele, lapho isikhawu phakathi kwezingqinamba singekho ngaphezu kwemizuzu emi-5-6. Uma ukucindezela kungavamile, futhi ukuvezwa kungaphansi kwamasentimitha amathathu, owesifazane okhulelwe uzothunyelwa ekhaya ukulinda isigaba esisebenzayo sokubeletha.
Kungakho abezindaba baseNtshonalanga begcwele izindatshana ezimayelana nokuthi abesifazane babelethela kanjani emaphaseji ezibhedlela, abanaso nesikhathi sokungena, noma ngisho emotweni - futhi kuhle uma bekwazi ukufika endaweni yokupaka izimoto.
3. Ongakhetha kukho eKesariya
Uma kusabeka kakhulu ukuzala yena, owesifazane angaphikelela ngokuhlinzwa. Lokhu kusetshenziswe, ngendlela, ngabanye osaziwayo - iBritney Spears, isibonelo. Unina wayesatshiswa yizigemegeme ezinyantisayo zokubeletha ukuthi inkanyezi ayizange ikucabangele nokuzibeletha. Asikwenzi lokhu - akekho udokotela osengqondweni yakhe oyokwenza isigaba sokuhlinzwa ngaphandle kobufakazi.
Kepha kukhona amazwe lapho isimo sengqondo ngeKesariya sinzima kakhulu kunesethu. Isibonelo, sine-myopia enamandla noma ukwehluka kwamathambo e-pubic - lokhu kuyinkomba yokuhlinzwa, kepha kwa-Israyeli akunjalo.
4. Akukho nzalo
Ukukhulelwa akusona isifo. Lona ngumbono eYurophu ngakho-ke bazalela emakamelweni lapho kungangabazeki khona ngokuzala. Noma ngubani umama okhulelwe afuna ukumbona angaba khona ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Futhi hhayi eyodwa kuphela - eFrance naseGreat Britain, ngokwesibonelo, bazovunyelwa ukuhlala egumbini lokulethwa kwababili, kwa-Israyeli - futhi. Kodwa-ke, njengoba kusho labo ababelethe kwa-Israyeli, kukhona ngisho nabantu abangu-5-6 ewadini labakhulelwe, futhi odokotela bathembeke impela kulokhu.
Kodwa into esemqoka ukuthi akekho ophoqelelwa ukushintsha izingubo nokushintsha izicathulo. Umuntu angaba khona endaweni engcwelengcwele egqoke izingubo zasemgwaqweni.
5. Khipha ukuphuma
Uma konke kuhambe kahle, umama nengane kusobala ukuthi balungile, bangakhishelwa ekhaya emahoreni angama-36. Uma kube nokuhlinzwa, bazogcinwa emnyangweni izinsuku ezintathu. Futhi ngokujwayelekile owesifazane ubuyiselwa ekhaya ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbili ebelethile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isikhathi asibalwa kusukela ngesikhathi umntwana ezalwa, kodwa kusukela ngesikhathi sokufika kowesifazane esibhedlela.
E-UK, bahamba ibanga elide kakhulu kulokhu - umama angakhishwa ekhaya ngemuva kwamahora ayisithupha nje kuphela ebelethile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kusese lula ngokwengeziwe ekhaya, ngakolunye uhlangothi, asikho isikhathi esanele sokuza ngokwakho.
6. Isihlalo semoto - isitayela semast
Cishe yonke indawo babheka ukuthi abazali abancane banesihlalo semoto yengane yabo. Uma kungenjalo, ngeke bamane badedelwe esibhedlela. Umhlengikazi nakanjani uzohlola ukuthi isihlalo simiswe kanjani emotweni, aqiniseke ukuthi ingane ibekwe kahle embhedeni futhi iboshelwe kahle. Futhi emva kwalokho kuphela lapho ungaya ekhaya.
7. Umkhuba wasekhaya
Kwamanye amazwe, njengeNetherlands, cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yomama ikhetha ukuzalwa kwasekhaya. Kulokhu, umbelethisi kufanele abe khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imindeni ibuye imeme umuntu osebenza ngemuva kokubeletha - uhlala endlini izinsuku ezimbalwa, asize ukuphatha ikhaya nengane, kubhala … Kepha uma umama enquma ukuya esibhedlela, uzokhishwa lapho ngemuva kwamahora ayisishiyagalombili, uma konke kuhamba kahle.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-Israel ne-United States banezikhungo ezikhethekile zokubeletha lapho ukuphazanyiswa yinkambo yemvelo yokusebenza kungakuncane. Ungahlala lapho izinsuku ezimbalwa, futhi izimo zisondele kakhulu ekhaya ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi abanye ababelethisi baqasha izindlu ngezinhloso ezinjalo lapho bezala khona. Into esemqoka ukuthi kufanele kube nesibhedlela endaweni ethile eseduze, uma kuvela ubunzima ngokuzumayo.