Ngo-May 18, isiteshi se-TV i-Domashny sethula uhlelo olusha oluthi "Sworn Beauty", ama-heroines okungabesifazane abalahlekelwe ukuthembela kubo kanye nokubukeka kwabo. Umsakazi u-Evelina Bledans ukhulume ngohlelo lwakhe loSuku Lwabesifazane.
Ngiyakujabulela kakhulu ukusiza abantu besifazane. Ngiyathanda uma amantombazane elungiswe kahle, emuhle, futhi kuyangijabulisa ukuhlanganyela kulokhu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ohlelweni mina ngokwami ngingabukisa. Kweminye imibukiso yami - "Konke kuzolunga" ku-NTV, "Umuntu Ongabonakali" ku-TV-3, "Dacha 360" esiteshini se-TV 360 - kukhona uhlobo oluthile lokugqoka, kodwa ku-"Jury" ngingahluka. . Angigqoki kuphela abanye besifazane, kodwa mina ngokwami ngihlala ngishintsha izingubo, izinwele zezinwele. Kukhona injabulo yamantombazane kulokhu.
Sekuvele kunenani elikhulu labantu abazimisele ukubamba iqhaza ekukhishweni okusha. Ngithole amakhulukhulu okuphawula. Nayizolo nje bengikwadokotela wamazinyo, bese kuzwakala isikhangiso sohlelo lwami emsakazweni. Futhi udokotela uthi: "O, Evelinochka, ngihlezi lapha esigqokweni sami, izinwele zami ziwukhuni, ngifuna ukuza ohlelweni lwakho." Ngamphendula: “Woza ekulingiseni okulandelayo, kodwa khumbula ukuthi ukungeneliseki nje ngokubukeka kwakho akwanele, iqhawekazi kumelwe libe nendaba, ngesibonelo sayo esizotshela izilaleli ngenkinga ethile.” Yiziphi izinkinga ezingaba khona? Izinhlobonhlobo. Nansi intombazane ehlushwa ukuntula ubufazi, igqoka izingubo zamadoda futhi ayikwazi ukusungula impilo yayo yomuntu siqu. Elinye iqhawekazi linesimo esiphambene - lingumphathi wokukhiqiza, kufanele libe nesandla esiqinile, libe njengebhizinisi, kodwa lona ngokwalo muhle futhi lithambile, njengonodoli kaBarbie, futhi akakwazi ukuhlukana nalesi sithombe, aqale ukugqoka isudi ukuze athathwe kakhulu. ngokungathí sina. Sifundisa abesifazane abanjalo ukuthi bajabule.
Yilowo umehluko. Asigcini nje ngokugqokisa umuntu, kodwa simnikeza usizo lwezengqondo. Okokuqala, ngikhuluma ne-heroine tete-a-tete. Njengoba sixoxa, ithimba lamajaji lisibhekile ngemva kwengilazi, esingayiboni. Ijaji ngezinye izikhathi linokhahlo kakhulu. Umsebenzi wami nomsebenzi wabo ukubona inkinga, engekho embala wezinwele kanye nokuma kwekhala, kodwa ekhanda le-heroine. Ngemva kwengxoxo yethu, intombazane iya kusazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, bese futhi kimi. Futhi uma ngibona ukuthi owesifazane oseshintshile ufikile kimi, ngimnika ezandleni ze-stylist yethu u-Alexander Shevchuk. I-heroine iya kumajaji njengomuntu ohlukile - ngesithombe esisha kanye nekhabethe. Uma ijaji likhipha isinqumo sokuthi intombazane isishintshile, ithatha zonke izingubo zayo futhi ithole izipho ezivela ohlelweni. Azikho izinguquko? Bese zonke izinto zibuyela kithi. Kodwa mina, njengomphathi wohlelo, nginelungelo lokuphikisa isinqumo samajaji.
Maye abaningi badela, baziqalela bona, bakholelwa ukuthi uma le ndoda ingabathandi futhi ibaphatha kabi, bonke abanye bayoziphatha ngendlela efanayo. Kulula kakhulu, ngenxa yezinkolelo ezinjalo, amantombazane ayaziqeda. Kumele sikulwe lokhu! Amadoda, phela, afana nama-tram, omunye ushiywe - olandelayo uzofika njalo. Akufanele neze ulahle ithemba. Udinga njalo ukuba muhle, ngendlela "ethengiswayo". Abesifazane abaningi balahlekelwa isisindo ngesikhathi sokugeza, baqala ukuzibandakanya ebusweni nasemzimbeni entwasahlobo ukuze bazibonise ogwini. Ngikholelwa ukuthi udinga ukuba muhle unyaka wonke. Futhi akukhona nje ngamantombazane avamile. E-workshop yokubamba, kukhona namacala anjalo lapho abesifazane beqala ukukhipha ngokweqile futhi bephatha induna, ngokushesha nje lapho kufika umsebenzi, okungukuthi, kwakukhona isizathu. Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sonyaka, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi kusasa ungabizwa futhi umenywe ukuba uvele ku-swimsuit, noma uzongena endabeni entsha yothando. Yilokhu engikhuluma ngakho ohlelweni lwami. Uma usulungele ubudlelwano obusha, ngeke bakugcine ulindile.
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Yebo kunjalo. Ngezinye izikhathi anginawo amandla anele, futhi ngiyaqonda ukuthi manje kuzoba ngcono ukuba ngilale. Kodwa uma ukhetha phakathi kukasofa nokuzivocavoca umzimba, ngithanda ezemidlalo nokuhamba nendodana yami. Empeleni, angiqondi ukuthi kuyini - ukumane ngilale esofeni noma ngihlezi endaweni yokudlela. Lapho useholidini, yebo, ungakwazi ukufunda umagazini endaweni yokuphumula elangeni. Kodwa noma ngiphumela olwandle, ngikhetha ukungaphumuli nje, kodwa ukubhukuda nokuhamba.
Ukuzithanda into okufanele umuntu wesifazane ahlale ehlala ekhanda lakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumfazi wendoda enhle noma umama oyedwa. Uma ungazithandi, akekho ozobe eseduze nawe. Le nto ifakazelwe yisikhathi.
Kunamaqhinga amaningi angokwengqondo, aqala ngokulula okunjalo, lapho owesifazane emi phambi kwesibuko futhi ezitshela ukuthi uhle kakhulu, uthola konke okuhle kuye, uhlola kahle amandla akhe nobuthakathaka bakhe. Lezi zinto zisebenza uma abantu bengaboni nje inkinga, kodwa futhi bazama ukuyilungisa - ngokushesha baya echibini, ejimini. Lapho izindlela zokuzincenga zingenawo amandla, sekuyisikhathi sokubonana nodokotela wezengqondo. Ikhabethe elisha noma ukugunda izinwele akusizi lutho lapha uma inkinga isekhanda lakho.