UZentia (oneminyaka engu-35 ubudala), ungumama kaZoe (oneminyaka engu-5 ubudala) noHarlan (iminyaka emi-3). Uhlale eFrance iminyaka emithathu nomyeni wakhe uLaurent, ongumFulentshi. Wazalelwa ePitoli lapho akhulela khona. Ungudokotela womchamo. Usitshela indlela abesifazane ababhekana ngayo nokuba ngumama eNingizimu Afrika, izwe azalelwa kulo.
Ubufakazi bukaZentia, umama waseNingizimu Afrika wezingane ezi-2
“'Ingane yakho ikhuluma isiFulentshi kuphela?', Izintombi zami zaseNingizimu Afrika zihlala zimangele, lapho bexoxa nabangane bethu eFrance. ENingizimu Afrika kunezilimi zezwe eziyishumi nanye futhi wonke umuntu ukwazile okungenani ezimbili noma ezintathu. Ngokwesibonelo, ngangikhuluma isiNgisi nomama, isiJalimane nobaba, isiBhunu nabangane bami. Kamuva, lapho ngisebenza esibhedlela, ngafunda isiZulu nesiSotho, okuyizilimi ezimbili zase-Afrika ezisetshenziswa kakhulu. Mina nezingane zami ngikhuluma isiJalimane ukuze ngigcine ifa likababa.
IKumele kushiwo ukuthi iNingizimu Afrika isekhona, naphezu kokuphela kobandlululo (umbuso wokucwasa ngokwebala owasungulwa kwaze kwaba ngowe-1994), ngeshwa usahlukene kakhulu. AmaNgisi, amaBhunu nama-Afrika ahlala ngokwehlukana, bambalwa kakhulu abaxubile abashadile. Umehluko phakathi kwabacebile nabampofu mkhulu, futhi akufani naseYurophu lapho abantu abavela ezizindeni ezihlukene zezenhlalo bengahlangana khona endaweni eyodwa. Lapho ngisemncane, abamhlophe nabamnyama babehlala ngokuhlukana. Komakhelwane, ezikoleni, ezibhedlela - yonke indawo. Kwakungekho emthethweni ukuxubana, futhi owesifazane omnyama owayenengane enejele elimhlophe wazifaka engozini. Konke lokhu kusho ukuthi iNingizimu Afrika iyawazi umehluko wangempela, iyilowo nalowo unamasiko ayo, amasiko akhona nomlando wawo. Ngisalukhumbula usuku uNelson Mandela akhethwa ngalo. Kwakuyinjabulo yangempela, ikakhulukazi ngoba sasingekho isikole futhi ngangikwazi ukudlala noBarbies bami usuku lonke! Iminyaka yobudlova ngaphambi kwalokho yayingiphawule kakhulu, ngangihlale ngicabanga ukuthi sizohlaselwa othile owayehlome ngeKalashnikov.
Ukukhulula i-colic ezinganeni zaseNingizimu Afrika
Izingane zinikezwa itiye le-rooibos (itiye elibomvu elingenayo i-theine), elinezindawo zokulwa ne-antioxidant futhi elikwazi ukukhulula ukuthuthumela. Izingane ziphuza lesi sidakamizwa kusukela ezinyangeni ezi-4 ubudala.
Ngakhulela endaweni yabamhlophe, phakathi kwamaNgisi namaBhunu. EPitoli, lapho ngazalelwa khona, isimo sezulu sihlala sisihle (ebusika ngu-18 ° C, ehlobo 30 ° C) futhi imvelo ikhona kakhulu. Zonke izingane zangakithi zazinomuzi omkhulu onengadi nedamu, futhi sasichitha isikhathi esiningi singaphandle. Abazali basihlelela izinto ezincane kakhulu, kwakuba omama ababehlangana nabanye omama baxoxe nezingane zilandele. Kuhlale kunjalo! Omama baseNingizimu Afrika bakhululekile futhi bachitha isikhathi esiningi nezingane zabo. Kumele kushiwo ukuthi isikole siqala eneminyaka engu-7, ngaphambi kwalokho, "inkulisa" (inkulisa), kodwa akuyona into engathi sína njengaseFrance. Ngaya enkulisa lapho ngineminyaka engu-4, kodwa izinsuku ezimbili kuphela ngesonto futhi ekuseni kuphela. Umama akazange asebenze iminyaka emine yokuqala futhi lokho kwakungokwemvelo, ngisho nokukhuthazwa umndeni nabangane. Manje bayanda omama ababuyela emsebenzini ngokushesha, futhi lokhu kuwushintsho olukhulu esikweni lethu ngoba umphakathi waseNingizimu Afrika awudlali. Isikole siphela ngo-13 ebusuku, ngakho uma umama esebenza kufanele athole umzanyana, kodwa eNingizimu Afrika kuyinto evamile futhi ayibizi nhlobo. Ukuphila komama kulula kunaseFrance.
Ukuba ngumama eNingizimu Afrika: izinombolo
Izinga lezingane ngowesifazane ngamunye: 1,3
Izinga lokuncelisa: 32% ukuncelisa ibele kuphela ezinyangeni eziyisi-6 zokuqala
Ikhefu lokuyobeletha: izinyanga ezi-4
Kithina, “i-braai” iyisikhungo sangempela!Lena izoso yethu edumile ephelezelwa "sheba", uhlobo lwesaladi katamatisi-anyanisi kanye ne-"pap" noma "mielimiel", uhlobo lwe-polenta yommbila. Uma umeme umuntu azodla, senza i-braai. NgoKhisimusi, wonke umuntu ufika e-braai, ngoNcibijane, kuphinde kube ne-braai. Kungazelelwe, izingane zidla inyama kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisi-6 futhi ziyayithanda! Isidlo abasithandayo yi-“boerewors”, amasoseji esintu esiBhunu ane-cilantro eyomisiwe. Awukho umuzi ongenawo i-braai, ngakho izingane azinayo imenyu eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Isidlo sokuqala sezingane “ipapa”, esidliwa “ne-braai”, noma sifakwe uswidi ngobisi, okuyiphalishi. Angizange ngibaphephise izingane, kodwa ekuseni bahlale bedla iphalishi le-polenta noma i-oatmeal. Izingane zaseNingizimu Afrika zidla uma zilambile, awekho ama-snacks noma amahora aqinile okudla kwasemini noma isidlo sakusihlwa. Esikoleni ayikho i-canteen, uma bephuma badle ekhaya. Kungaba isemishi elilula, hhayi isiqalo, inkambo eyinhloko kanye nophudingi njengaseFrance. Siphinde sidle okuningi.
Engikugcine eNingizimu Afrika yindlela yokukhuluma nezingane. Umama noma ubaba abakaze bakhulume amazwi ahlabayo, kodwa ayeqinile. Abantu baseNingizimu Afrika abasho ezinganeni zabo, njengabanye abantu baseFrance, “thula!”. Kodwa eNingizimu Afrika, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwamaBhunu nama-Afrika, ukuziphatha nokuhloniphana kubaluleke kakhulu. Isiko liphezulu kakhulu, kukhona ibanga langempela phakathi kwabazali nezingane, ngamunye endaweni yakhe. Yinto engingakayigcinanga nhlobo lapha, ngithanda uhlangothi olungafakelwanga luzimele futhi oluzenzekela. “
Ingxoxo ka-Anna Pamula kanye no-Dorothée Saada