Okuqukethwe
- Umntwana uthukuthele: Amathiphu angu-10 okusabela kahle
- Ulaka lukaBaby: ungalunaki
- Ulaka lukaBaby: mlinde aze ehlise umoya
- Ulaka lukaBaby: myeke
- Intukuthelo yomntwana: ungavumeli!
- Ulaka lukaBaby: hlangana noyise
- Intukuthelo yomntwana: hlala ulawula ingxoxo
- Intukuthelo yengane: yekela i-ballast
- Intukuthelo yengane: cabanga ngesijeziso
- Ulaka lukaBaby: mvumele alungise ubulima bakhe
- Intukuthelo yomntwana: yenza ukuthula
Umntwana uthukuthele: Amathiphu angu-10 okusabela kahle
Ngizokubona maduzane eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala, ingane yakho yomele ukuzimela futhi iyasijabulela isimangalo. Lokhu kunengqondo ngoba manje usenesiqiniseko sokuthi ungumuntu ogcwele, onamalungelo nezifiso zakhe. Inkinga kuphela: izifiso zakhe akuzona oda abulawe yesibili. Njengoba engakayilawuli imizwelo yakhe, angakwazi ukuphuma ezinkingeni zakhe. Ngakho-ke, ngisho noma kukuhle futhi kujwayelekile ukuthi aphikisane ukuze azakhe, lesi simemezelo sokuzimela kufanele simiswe ngokuphelele ukuze angaphenduki abe… umashiqela omncane. Izeluleko zethu zokuthi ungasiphatha kanjani kangcono isimo…
Ulaka lukaBaby: ungalunaki
Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho encane isivele iphephile. Zola, ungabanaki “isinema” yakhe. Vumela intukuthelo idlule ngokwayo, ngaphandle kokukunika ukubaluleka noma ukungenelela: inethuba elihle kakhulu lokuma phakathi nemizuzu emibili!
Ulaka lukaBaby: mlinde aze ehlise umoya
Lapho ingane ithukuthele, akukho okusizayo. Okwamanje, asikho isidingo sokuzama ukuxhumana noma ukumemeza nakakhulu: U-Theo, engakwazi ukulawula imizwa yakhe, ubengeke akuzwe noma athuke. Linda kuze kuphele ukuquleka nokushuba kwezinzwa kuye kwehlile.
Ulaka lukaBaby: myeke
Uma kudingekile, hlukanisa ingane yakho ngokumvumela ukuba ahambe futhi akhale yedwa ekamelweni lakhe ukuze akhiphe amandla akhe. Uyoba nelungelo lokubuyela kuwe lapho lonke ulaka lwakhe seluphelile.
Intukuthelo yomntwana: ungavumeli!
Uma intukuthelo yakhe “ikhokha” futhi ingane yakho izuza kukho, umjikelezo omubi nakanjani uyophinde wenzeke.
Ulaka lukaBaby: hlangana noyise
Uma u-Baby ethukuthele, hlala uvumelana nobaba: ngaphandle kwalokho, usomaqhinga wakho ogqoke izikhindi uzongena ekwephuleni umthetho futhi aqonde ukuthi angakwazi ukunikhohlisa ukuze niwine icala lakhe.
Intukuthelo yomntwana: hlala ulawula ingxoxo
Akubuzwa ngokungena ezingxoxweni ezingapheli! Akudingeki uzithethelele izenzo zakho ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo futhi kufanele ukwazi ukuqeda ingxoxo ngokubeka intando yakho.
Intukuthelo yengane: yekela i-ballast
Izimo ezithile azikufanelekeli ukuxoxisana: ukuphuza imithi yakho, ukugqoka kahle lapho kubanda, ukugoqana esihlalweni emotweni, njll. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuhle ukuvumela ingane yakho ilunge: KULUNGILE ibhulukwe eliluhlaza kunelibomvu. eyodwa, KULUNGILE ukuqhubeka nomdlalo, kodwa imizuzu emihlanu kuphela nangemva kwalokho, lala… U-Theo uzokwazi ukuthi uyazwakala (ngakho-ke uyacatshangelwa) futhi athole kancane akufunayo.
Intukuthelo yengane: cabanga ngesijeziso
Isijeziso noma cha? Isijeziso sizohlala silingana nobuwula obenziwe. Ingabe ingane ithukuthele ngoba wenqaba ukumthengela igalaji lamaphupho akhe ngaso leso sikhathi? Mncishe izimanga okwesikhashana.
Ulaka lukaBaby: mvumele alungise ubulima bakhe
Inkinga isiphelile, mnike ithuba lokulungisa ubulima bakhe. U-Theo ube nezenzo ezinobudlova ezilimaza noma kukhona aphule okuthile? Msize aqoqe izingcezu zephazili yomfowabo omkhulu, “ahlanganise izingcezu”… ngawo wonke umqondo wegama.
Intukuthelo yomntwana: yenza ukuthula
Ungalokothi uhlale ekungqubuzaneni! Ukuyisiza ukuthi yakheke futhi iqhubeke, ukubuyisana kufanele kuqede ingxabano ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngemva kwamagama ambalwa encazelo, itshwele lakho lizodinga ngokuphelele ukuzwa ukuthi ukucasuka kwalo akulimazi uthando lwakho ngalo nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Uyafuna ukukhuluma ngakho phakathi kwabazali? Ukunikeza umbono wakho, ukuletha ubufakazi bakho? Sihlangana ku-https://forum.parents.fr.