Lapho usemusha, kubonakala sengathi awusoze waguga futhi ugule. Kodwa-ke, isikhathi esingenakulinganiswa siyasebenza, futhi izinombolo zikhanya - kakade 40, kakade 50. Akekho ongavikela ikusasa lakhe ezifweni nasezinkingeni ngo-100%. Kodwa likhona ithemba! Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, Ph.D., uTracey Thomas ukhuluma ngalawo ma-postulates anikeza isisekelo senjabulo nempilo yesikhathi esizayo, uma uqala ukunamathela kubo kusukela esemncane.
Sebenzisa umzimba wakho njenge-barometer
Ingabe iqolo lakho liyaphela? Ingabe isisu sakho siyakhala njalo ekuseni uma uya emsebenzini? Umzimba wethu uklanywe ngendlela yokuthi usabela kuzo zonke izici zangaphakathi nezangaphandle. Uma kukhona okungahambisani naye, khona-ke ukucindezeleka, ubuhlungu obunzima futhi obungapheli ngisho nokugula kuvela. Kunabantu abahlale benento ebuhlungu, isizathu singaphandle kwemithi. Ngakho-ke umzimba ungasabela ekungakhululeki nasekunganeliseki ngokuphila. Awukwazi ukuvele uzibe ubuhlungu bekhanda nezinye izinhlungu, udinga ukubheka umsuka wengqondo yakho, umsebenzi kanye nenhlalakahle yakho.
Thola umsebenzi ofanele wena
Ngokuvamile siqale sizikhethele indlela yobungcweti, bese sizama ukulungisa ubuntu bethu emsebenzini. Kodwa kufanele kube ngenye indlela. Buza umbuzo, hlobo luni lwempilo ofuna ukuphila? Zisebenzele wena noma uziqashele? Uneshejuli egxilile noma entantayo? Hlobo luni lwabantu osebenza nabo oluyokhululeka kuwe? Ingabe uzoziphendulela? Hlanganisa ubuhle bakho kanye nezintandokazi zakho, futhi uthole indlela elele kulesi sikhala. Ikusasa lakho lizokubonga ngokwenza ukukhetha okufanele.
Zithande wena ngaphambi kokuthanda omunye
Intsha ivame ukubheka ikhambi lezinkinga zayo ebudlelwaneni bothando. Ukuwela othandweni nothando kungase kungabi umuzwa wangempela, kodwa kuphela isibuko sokuzindla. Ubudlelwano obunjalo bunekusasa elifiphele. Udinga ukuba umuntu ophelele ngokwakho, bese ubheka umlingani ofanayo wonke ukuze ube nobuhlobo obunempilo nobujabulisayo.
Thola umsebenzi womzimba olungile
Indima yemfundo yomzimba yezempilo ayidingi ubufakazi. Kodwa ngokuvamile ukuya kokufaneleka kuba umsebenzi onzima, umsebenzi ongawuthandi. Kusukela ebusheni, ungakhetha imisebenzi ezokujabulisa futhi ikwenze umkhuba wakho ukuphila kwakho konke. Ngokuvamile lokhu kukhetha yilokho owawuthanda ukukwenza useyingane. Ukudansa, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili ogwini lolwandle - uma lokhu kunomphumela omuhle esimweni somzwelo, khona-ke umkhuba onjalo kufanele ulungiswe iminyaka eminingi.
Funda ukuzilalela
Simatasa kakhulu kangangokuthi asitholi isikhathi sokuxazulula imizwa yethu futhi siveze izinkinga ngesikhathi. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuchuma ekuphileni ukwazi ukuthi yini ekwenza ujabule. Vala i-smartphone yakho bese ucabanga ukuthi uzizwa ujabule yini nabangane bakho, ingabe wanelisekile ngomsebenzi wakho? Ngokuqonda imizwa yakho, ungakha impilo ende ejabulisayo ngokuqaphela.
Zibekele imigomo kodwa ube ovumelana nezimo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyilwele nokuthi yini okufanele usebenzele kukho. Kodwa futhi kuyadingeka ukushiya isikhala ukuze uhambe eceleni. Ungawela ekunganeliseki okujulile uma wehlulekile "ukushada usuneminyaka engama-30" noma "ukuba umphathi usuneminyaka engama-40." Kukhona nengozi yokuphuthelwa amathuba athakazelisayo lapho bephambuka endleleni ehlosiwe. Vumela umgomo oyinhloko ubonakale, kodwa ungaya kuwo ngezindlela ezahlukene.
Xoxa nabangani nomndeni
Kuyancomeka ukusha emsebenzini! Iqiniso lokuthi umsebenzi uba kuqala kuyiqiniso eliqondakalayo. Ukusebenza kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukudla, ukugqoka nokuba nezindlu. Kodwa, kaningi, lapho ethole impumelelo, iziqu kanye nokuchuma, umuntu uzizwa enesizungu ... Ungaphambanisi umsebenzi nobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu. Gcina ukuthintana okujwayelekile nabangani nomndeni, futhi ungavumeli abathintwayo baphele ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Qaphela ukuthi yonke into emhlabeni ixhumene
Uma uthi nhlá, lokhu kubonakala kuyinkulumo-ze. Kodwa ngokuvamile abantu abakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi uma uzonda umsebenzi, ngeke ujabule ekuphileni kwakho siqu. Uzoba semshadweni owumthwalo - uzolahlekelwa impilo engokomzimba neyengqondo. Ukunganeliseki endaweni ethile kuholela ezinkingeni kwenye. Okungenamsebenzi futhi okungadingekile phakathi neminyaka iqinisa kakhulu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukufunda ukwenqaba. Esikhundleni sokuya ephathini kuze kube sekuseni, ungathola amandla ngokuzindla noma ngokunyakazisa umzimba. Thola abantu abanomqondo ofanayo kulokho okwenza impilo yakho ivumelane. Uma kungenjalo, ukwehluleka okuthile kuzodala abanye.