Masihlukanise ngokushesha phakathi kwemiqondo ye "etiquette" nethi "feminism". Ukuvulela owesifazane umnyango, ukunikeza isandla ngesikhathi esifanele, ukukhokha ngosuku kuyinhlonipho. Ikhono lokuzivulela umnyango phambi kwamadoda noma uzikhokhele kakade ubufazi (noma uhlamvu olubi, noma enye into engahambisani nhlobo nalesi sihloko). Ngiyaphinda futhi - ithuba, hhayi isidingo! Ayikho imibhikisho yabesifazane ephikisana nokunakekelwa nokunakwa.
Ngakho-ke, yiziphi amantombazane anamuhla azokwenqatshwa uma ubufazi bungaphazamisi emlandweni wezwe:
1. Ukuhamba ngokuzimela, kanye nohambo olulula olungaphelezelwa.
2. Amathuba okukhanya kulolu hambo ngebhikini ebukekayo ogwini lolwandle.
3. Yiqiniso, ithuba lokuthumela isithombe sakho ku-bikini ekhangayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
4. Ngokunokwenzeka, bebengeke babe nelungelo lokubhalisa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
5. Sebenza, uma kungewona umsebenzi wasekhaya. Yiso kanye isimangalo esivame ukwenziwa ngokumelene nama-feminists. Ngeke ngicashe, futhi ngihanjelwa yimicabango yokuthi indawo yami iseziko kunasehhovisi. Kodwa bekungeke kusebenze nhlobo. Ngisho noma ufuna ngempela. Noma ungakuthathi njengomsebenzi, kodwa kuwubizo. Thatha uJane Austen. Wayeyintombazane ethuthuka kakhulu ngesikhathi sakhe lapho eqala ukushicilela amanoveli ayewabhalile.
6. Futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu esingenhla, amantombazane esimanje ngeke akwazi ukuthola i-aphoyintimenti nodokotela wesifazane. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuba ntofontofo kakhulu, akunjalo?
7. Njalo ngonyaka, abesifazane abangaba yizigidi ezingu-55 bakhipha ukukhulelwa kwabo. Ehhovisi lezokwelapha eliyinyumba, hhayi ngasese ngosizo lochwepheshe abangabazisayo. Ake sishiye ingxenye yokuziphatha yalo mbuzo. Ngamunye wabo wayenesizathu sakhe sokwenza lokhu kukhetha.
8. Sibonga i-feminism, siphinde sibe nekhefu elikhokhelwayo lokuyoteta (ingabe ubusaqiniseka ukuthi abantu besifazane abawudingi umndeni?)
9. Besingeke sikwazi ukuthokozela ukudlala kwabadlali bethenisi, abasubathi, abavocavoca kanye nabanye abasubathi. Abesifazane kuma-Olympics, njengabesifazane abasemidlalweni yezingane, bayifa lobufazi.
Lolu hlu lungaqhutshekwa futhi luthuthukiswe isikhathi eside: okuzuzwe yi-feminism kuhlanganisa nelungelo lemfundo, lesehlukaniso, ikhono lokulwa nodlame lwasekhaya ... Yebo, lapha, njengakunoma yimuphi omunye umkhuba womphakathi, kunabantu abahlukumezayo. hamba kakhulu futhi unciphise izinto kuze kube okungenangqondo. Kodwa namuhla ake sinake okuhle esinakho sibonga umsebenzi wamafeminist. Phela, kubonakala sengathi siphila kahle ngempela?