Dlula induku!
Kuvamile futhi kubalulekile ukucela usizo uma lowo ohamba naye engakwazi ukuzikhulula. Phakathi kokuthenga, ukunakekela, ukuhlanza, ukupheka, izingcingo ... unomuzwa wokuthi awunamandla okulawula.
Ungathuki, kunalokho cela usizo kumama wakho, udadewenu noma umngane. Kodwa qaphela, kubalulekile ukuthi lo muntu abe nombono oqondile futhi ahloniphe ukukhetha kwakho, ikakhulukazi mayelana nokuncelisa.
Khetha umuntu owazi kahle ikhaya lakho ukuze angamtsheli yonke into futhi ozizwa ekhululekile lapho.
Okokugcina, gwema amalungu omndeni anomoya wokungezwani ukuze uthole usizo… lesi akusona isikhathi sokuxazulula izingxabano zomndeni ezindala.
Ukuvakasha akuningi kakhulu!
Isilingo sihle ukumema abangani nomndeni ukuthi bancike phezu kwembeleko ukuze babone ukuthi ingelosi yakho encane imangalisa kangakanani. Kodwa kubalulekile, amasonto ambalwa, ukubeka i-hola ekuvakasheni.
Empeleni, ungena esikhathini izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezisibiza ngokuthi “i-nesting”. Lokhu ukuhoxiswa okukodwa okukuvumela ukuthi uphinde uthole amandla akho futhi wakhe i-trio edumile "ubaba, umama, ingane". Ayikho indlela yokuzihlukanisa nezwe langaphandle kodwa ukukhawulela ukuvakasha kube okukodwa ngosuku ekuqaleni.
Izinyathelo ezithile zokuphepha ungayivusi ingane yakho uyikhombise uMalume u-Ernest odlulayo, ungayidlulisi ingalo uye engalweni; gwema ukwenza umsindo omkhulu futhi ucele ukuthi abantu bangabhemi bekhona. |
Akukho okukuvimbela ukuthi uye kubona abangani inqobo nje uma ulandela le mithetho efanayo. Ingane encane ingase iphume lapho ibuya ekubeni ngumama. Kubaluleke nakakhulu, udinga ukushaywa umoya ngaphandle uma izinga lokushisa liphakeme kakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akukho mbuzo wokumyisa ohambweni engakayihlanganisi inyanga eyodwa.
Ukubuyela ekhaya ngempumelelo kumayelana nokubona ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza yonke into ngokugcwele. Ukuba ngumama kudinga umbono omusha wesikhathi: akuseyona eyakho wedwa. Kodwa nakuMntwana wakho!